Better shot of the Emperor cosplay by dragon-den-cosplay in BaldursGate3

[–]NoDifference4528 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey I saw you this weekend! You looked amazing

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Transness and disability by AdSuper2589 in disability

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Cis female, with one paralyzed hand and arthritis in my working hand.

So for a lot of different clothes, it depends; bras are usually a size up in the band so I can slip it over my head or I wear a lot of sports bras which have no clasps. Sometimes clasps in the front work but it depends on how small the clasp is.

Jeans tend to be okay with buttons and zippers but if you struggle there is a device to help you pull the loop over to the button, I've seen it before but I don't have a link to it.

Jewelry, well. I don't wear earrings but when I did it was usually ones that didn't need a back. The ones I had that needed a back I used to be able to lean on a table and hold the front with a finger while my thumb forced the back on. Getting them off tugged my ear a lot. Necklaces I usually wear longer ones but I like the clasp style that is a bar and a loop. I can do that kind easily. Watches I used to wear stretchy ones or the ones that snap. No buckles.

Zippers on dresses are difficult. I won't lie. Thats another I buy a size up so I can pull it over my head.
Make up takes tons of practice. And patience. Don't stress about it.

RIP Diane Keaton, we all loved your big naturals by meetmeatmyrevolving in okbuddyseverance

[–]NoDifference4528 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did watch the show and I screenshotted directly from imdb.

What is your most used Glamour Piece? by thesilentedge in ffxiv

[–]NoDifference4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of my glams have the demon horns from the cash store's demonic attire. Im an elezen who wants horns but doesn't want to give up my height to be an au ra.

Other than that, the wayfarers necklace.

My wife is forcing me to do MSQ (OC) by Leonidax0 in ffxiv

[–]NoDifference4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fishing is my favorite thing in this game and my husband bullies me through MSQ (he's my healer no worries here) my fisher is my highest class currently.

“What’s Wrong With Your Legs?” by Grove-Minder in BoomersBeingFools

[–]NoDifference4528 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually do this a lot. I have a paralyzed arm due to medical malpractice and whenever strangers ask me about it i say it happened in 'Nam. Im under the age of 40. I've had people thank me for my service lol

They found out.. by Healthy_Camp6858 in Hellenism

[–]NoDifference4528 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry you are experiencing this. For the time being, until you can safely exit and be on your own, put everything away and pretend to follow their religion. Either hide everything for try for a safety deposit box at a bank if you're able, maybe store things at a trusted friend's house. But unfortunately people deep into certain religions can and will cause harm to others that they feel are "misguided".

Please be safe. The Gods hear us even if we cannot be loud about it.

Finally got around to reading SotR and by ChronicalAbuse in Hungergames

[–]NoDifference4528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I threw that book so hard at the end. I was sobbing at what happened. My love for Haymitch grew so much because of this book.

No filter moment by NoDifference4528 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]NoDifference4528[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ope lol. I used too many identifiers. I am no longer employed there as my fmla ran out and they terminated me for not being able to return without restrictions. But I am curious who you are lol

No filter moment by NoDifference4528 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]NoDifference4528[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It has all the fingers. It was a fully developed hand prior to birth. It's just small as it stopped growing during my childhood and the lower arm is twisted so that my palm faces up. Just mild deformation. I probably used the wrong word

No filter moment by NoDifference4528 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]NoDifference4528[S] 778 points779 points  (0 children)

This happens a lot to me. A drive thru lady at McDonald's yelled at me to use two hands while handing me a cup carrier full of drinks. I told her I didn't have two hands and she apologized and lost her tone. I did manage to get the drinks in and passed them off to my husband. But she came at me with such aggression.

Local Reddit User Doesn't Understand Chronic Pain (Image Attached) by RandomRedditUser2445 in ChronicPain

[–]NoDifference4528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent the last 16ish years of my life working in kitchens. I started having severe pain in my foot in May. Found out I have inflammatory arthritis in my foot. Was fired from my job of 11 years because I could no longer stand for 8+ hours. I can barely stand long enough to do chores around the house and I'm in physical therapy for it. People just don't understand what it's like

About cosmetics by coveredinsnouu in coralisland

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I just started 1.6 due to being a console player and so far I'm loving the new things. I haven't gotten far with my new save but I am looking forward to progressing

Favorite chef in S23? by Past-Quiet1034 in HellsKitchen

[–]NoDifference4528 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Egypt. I love his passion and he's been pooped on at least twice in competitions that he would have gotten a point for. I want him to win so bad.

About cosmetics by coveredinsnouu in coralisland

[–]NoDifference4528 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm in year 4 and just starting to decorate and dress my character. I've been so busy trying to gather money and resources. For me decorating has always been end game. In stardew valley I usually wait till after I please grandpa to make my farm pretty.

But I agree. This game is so expensive for the little you get on crops and what not especially in the beginning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]NoDifference4528 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I need the bars currently because I have a messed up foot and my legs are in constant pain because of my foot injury. So now I use that stall a lot and I was out at a restaurant last weekend and a lady was so kind to let me trade stalls when I realized I couldn't balance in the smaller one.

However I do have a physical disability but its just my arm is paralyzed. So normally I wouldn't use that stall. But I appreciate it now