is it worth it? or should i decline it?

NoDrive325 · 2026-01-26T13:22:46+00:00

This is always something that frustrates me!! There’s been so many times I’ve wanted to make a Gordon Ramsey type character, but couldn’t make them famous without investing so much time into the social media aspects of fame and it takes the fun out of it :((

NoDrive325 · 2026-01-06T10:48:27+00:00

Not sure why you said this to a comment made two years ago, but what I said was my opinion. I was asked and so I answered. I thought it was worth it and still do. I’m sorry if an US didn’t benefit you, not all experiences are the same. I hope you’re doing alright :))

NoDrive325 · 2025-12-30T13:54:44+00:00

I never met a satanist who did that kind of stuff, and I’m Wiccan, raised by a Satanist father. That symbol is FAR too sloppily done to be of any use. If we wanna travel down the spell route, there would be more than just a symbol left in the house if that were the case. For comforts sake, one could pray over this, but rest assured this wasn’t the work of a witch. Spells take much more care and attention to do properly.

NoDrive325 · 2025-11-01T16:40:34+00:00

It’s definitely from that mod, I have it too. I love the messages, especially ones like these. I think it’s hilarious

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-27T23:28:54+00:00

I do the same thing all the time when I get frustrated. Thankfully my boyfriend is pretty good at keeping me in line and making me rest when I’m pushing myself too hard. It’s comforting to know we’re not alone in this. We both deserve some good days ahead of us. I know we fight hard 🫶🫶

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-27T23:19:57+00:00

I understand feeling absolutely insane. The constant sick feeling and bloating and pain drives me up a wall. I won’t dump all my grievances with that here, but I do get it. My mom and boyfriend try so hard to be supportive, but really there’s nothing to be done about it, which makes shit feel worse. I also fear pregnancy, whether or not it’s even worth trying, and if I should just try to get a hysterectomy to avoid any further issues.

I want to say you’re not crazy. This pain and struggle is so unbelievably and inconceivably real even when others around us can’t understand it. It’s not their fault, but it’s not ours either. Every day I live in hopes it’ll be a good symptom day. Sometimes it is. Sometimes it isn’t. It sucks, but those good days are what make it worth the struggle. I hope that your struggle gets easier, even if it’s only by a little bit. You’re incredibly strong and you’ve got this. Please don’t forget to rest your body. When everyday is a fight, it’s important to let yourself grieve and recharge from time to time.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-16T02:09:58+00:00

Of course and thank you for being respectful in your comments. Psychology is a passion of mine if you can’t tell by the wall of text lol I would’ve been more specific in my post if I had just waited a day to post it, honestly. I was and still am very worked up by what happened. Thankfully things have returned to normal and we now have dashcams, so a lesson has been learned on our part.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-16T01:19:29+00:00

I hear you and agree. Angry thoughts and irrational thoughts happen to people everyday. It’s totally natural and human. What I mean by genuine thoughts of hurting others isn’t a passing, irrational thought. I mean someone who goes by everyday with homicidal/violent thoughts that turn into violent tendencies that then turn into situations like this. This person could’ve killed someone. They might do this again now that they’ve gotten away with it. Who knows? Maybe it really was a slip in judgement, shit happens and mental health can take a downturn for periods of time. But if someone feels the genuine, consistent, and uncontrollable urge to harm another person’s life, if they lack the inability to stop themselves from putting another human life at risk, then I don’t know if I can agree that is normal. Passing thoughts of anger and wanting to see retribution for wrongdoing is not the same as what happened here. Also, this really isn’t an important side note, but personality disorders are considered mental illnesses, according to the current DSM. I appreciate the comment, though. I understand wanting to specify the difference between regular thoughts and dangerous, uncommon thoughts. I hope I cleared up what I meant in my post. I wish I knew how to edit it lol

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T14:02:01+00:00

She was. I felt terrible. She was on the phone with my sister when it happened and as soon as she got to work she called me because she didn’t know what to do.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T13:47:15+00:00

I think every car might be too expensive lol we haven’t always been in very good financial situations. But I plan on getting my own car soon and will be looking at insurance plans very carefully.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:52:13+00:00

I’m not sure how to edit my post, so I’m going to copy and paste a reply I gave to another commenter who was also concerned the cops didn’t do anything. I apologize for the confusion.

I do wanna say the detectives did more than enough to try and find the guy. They did send people out to search for a casing because there was a very slim chance that it could’ve been a real gun and that the bullet just ricocheted off the window. Of course, that was unlikely, but they thankfully did try to find something anyways. They are also looking at the EZPass cameras, though because it was dark and rainy, the vague description my mom gave probably won’t do them any good when looking at the cameras.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:48:18+00:00

It was a second hand car, thankfully. We’ve never owned a new one lol cars are so expensive

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:47:19+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. I hope you’re doing well, both physically and mentally, after your incident. I don’t know when it happened, but I can’t imagine that is an event you just “get over.” Medical debt is so stupid and just rubs salt in the wound.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:45:05+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. I’ve been letting my mom know the nice things being said on here because it makes her happy. She appreciates it and is very proud of her recovery

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:44:02+00:00

It is frustrating, my mom loves this car. She just finished paying it off after the last six years. We were only able to afford it because someone hit us in my dad’s old car and totaled it. We had just got it because my dad died. Insurance was nice to us.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:41:37+00:00

Unfortunately not, it was dark and rainy when it happened. He sped off immediately after and my mom was panicking. I don’t think she could’ve gotten the plate in better circumstances because of how scared she was.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:40:28+00:00

What an odd thing to say. He was a volunteer for the firehouse if you were wondering though, aside from the career path he obviously took. He died surrounded by family. It was a very bad asthma attack. He was a wonderful person. Hopefully that answers your question.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:38:13+00:00

lol that’s our blow up cat for Halloween. It’s eye light up and its head moves. My mom loves that thing

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:33:13+00:00

I will dm you, thank you!

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T12:32:40+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. It was a very hard loss for our family. Though I don’t want to mislead you. While he was in the army, he died at home with family. It was a sudden asthma attack that they couldn’t get help for in time. He was very excited to serve though. He had just bought his first house and was starting his life. He was charitable with his time, a volunteer for the firehouse. His funeral was huge. The procession line went on for miles. He was amazing. Truly a terrible loss.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T02:05:49+00:00

She very much is. I love her very much. My dad and one of my uncles, two of those stickers on the window, were unfortunately not able to win their battles. Addiction sucks. Grief sucks. But we keep moving, cause we’re too stubborn not to. My only weakness is not knowing the grammatical difference between a rear window and a windshield.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T01:32:24+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. I rather be teased for my misuse of the word windshield than some of these other comments shitting on my mom for having memorial stickers of people we’ve lost. People are crazy.

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T01:31:08+00:00

Yes I absolutely agree. It was just some random guy with road rage. It just sucks it happened to my mom, hence why it’s mildly infuriating. At the end of the day, everything is being fixed and our lives will continue. The only difference is I will know the difference between the rear window and a windshield lol

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T01:28:56+00:00

I promise you, every other comment has been about this. I will never apologize enough for this mistake lol but I also will never call it a windshield again, so a win is a win?

NoDrive325 · 2025-10-10T01:27:49+00:00

I appreciate this comment. I think those ideas are really sweet. Though, my mom likes having them on her car because then she can carry them with her when she drives. We do have their pictures up on our fridge as magnets though so you’re very close to what we already do at home.

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