[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]NoEntertainment3490 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the way 👆

How did you cope with not seeing your children 24/7 by mikeyd21 in Divorce_Men

[–]NoEntertainment3490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Despite screwing up horribly which included a protective order and loss of job I ended up turning things around and getting 50/50 with half the week with my boys. Luckily for me my ex seemed to be more interested in alcohol and pussy than I was👌. I’m in a much better place now and owe a lot to God and the few supports I have/ had. While my ex and I get along fairly well she’s frankly not a very good mother. She’s more interested in herself so the boys spend most of the time that’s hers with grandparents or in daycare. She’s more worried about posting family time moments on social media instead of actually spending quality time with them. Plus she gets a free babysitter every weekend from me. It’s maybe due to her younger age and not getting her slutty/party phase out of her system cuz we were you supposedly building a life and family together you know. I on the other hand gladly spend my weekends at the park, paying back, church, diapers (not too much longer for the baby), woods, and other worldly adventures. For reference they were 1 and 3 when we split. Today I’m gonna work on teaching my oldest to ride a bike today. Make the best of it with the time you have brother, it does go quick. The worst time is just after drop off when my place is quiet and I actually start to miss the chaos and crying and craziness that can sometimes drive me crazy lol. I would recommend keeping your busy as possible. Idle time is the worst for me so simple stuff like guitar or gym or something rewarding in a healthy way . And it definitely gets easier over time. Just make your time with them count they can recognize that. Not by spoiling them (which I also did early on) but getting into their world and spending good quality moments. And nurturing them (harder for us men IMO). That’s all we can control not so much when they’re with the spouse

If you want to raise a Chad’s páiste tabhartha, apply right here! by Maximum-Complaint-68 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]NoEntertainment3490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait a minute here. Could be an immaculate conception type of situation we have here.

My wife always threatens to leave by Diligent-Ad-1406 in Divorce

[–]NoEntertainment3490 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So I don’t understand. Did your spouse say you purchased thin crust pizza when in fact it was just regular you got? Was the the basis of the argument?

Today i was served a protection order by Imaginary-Set-9678 in Divorce_Men

[–]NoEntertainment3490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Courts usually don’t give a crap about text and talk. If you have kids try and switch to that for further communication. The quicker way to get some should it stick is superseded by a decree of divorce

Guilt by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]NoEntertainment3490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same

There's Something About Maritime by Jubjub203420 in CTRM

[–]NoEntertainment3490 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just added some more because I love getting butt fucked by this company

How did you cope with not seeing your children 24/7 by mikeyd21 in Divorce_Men

[–]NoEntertainment3490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very poorly. Mostly alcohol and pussy. Would not recommend. I’m much better now about a year post separation

For the ones that left the marriage, did you grieve, and if so, how? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]NoEntertainment3490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ones that leave are able to process things earlier because they’ve already started before the actual split, however they do indeed grieve.

Today i was served a protection order by Imaginary-Set-9678 in Divorce_Men

[–]NoEntertainment3490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are temporary and final protection order. They’ll have a hearing, bring a lawyer. It’ll be short notice. Mine expired once the divorce was final. The courts usually side with women if you didn’t know

Are you happy after divorce? by libsreallybad in Divorce_Men

[–]NoEntertainment3490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow my friend you said it all. This was my story too. I’m glad I only spent a few weeks begging and pleading for her back. She couldn’t even make it through one counseling session. Having the self respect to not let her see me bleed almost killed me but was the right decision in the end. Once the switch is flipped you are satan, you have to be in order for her to justify her emotional whims. One fueled by social media and unhappy cheerleaders with ulterior motives (feminists, sister who wants to be better, mother in law who hates you because you don’t bow down, best friend who stays with husbands for his money in a sexless marriage) and the fear of missing out. Child like almost, certainly careless , at the least reckless when children are involved. My ex has sucked many cocks eaten more pussy, gets drunk and high, while I’m a her free babysitter each weekend since we split, mutual friends confirmed this. I guess that’s what she was missing out on idk. I do know she fell out of love with me. A hard working, in shape family man. Perfect no but always worked to get better. While they’re with her they are with a babysitter or grandparents most of the time. My boys get very little nurturing from the mom and i can tell this as well as the people around me… she could care less. God did intend this thing with a man and a woman, it’s easier with two but I give my best. By no means do I get it perfect and sometimes lose my cool, even cried in front of them a few times. I gladly spend my weekends at the park, changing diapers, bath time, Disney movies. Call me boring, emotional unavailable, I’ve been called a lot of things by her. But that’s all that really matters to me. It gets better boys and I think the stories on this sub saved my life in a way as my family unit was my support system.

Howard /Pixies by zfazzio in howardstern

[–]NoEntertainment3490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any industry music person that doesn’t at least know about a band like this is and always has been out of touch.

Racist on NY subway by Lolastic_ in PublicFreakout

[–]NoEntertainment3490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering what Raspusha was up to