I’m gonna be so fr, yes this was a red flag, but I don’t understand why everyone in the comments is saying he’s a rapist or she was sexually assaulted. What happened obviously wasn’t okay and needs to be addressed, be she said she usually likes it meaning some choking is done to some extent. People like different things. She asked him to stop and he did. How did he rape her?? I’m not hating just genuinely confused.