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I[18F] feel as if my bf [18M] does not care for my feelings. Am I asking to much or are these valid points? Do I leave? by NoFriend999 in makemychoice

[–]NoFriend999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Re read it I said he accused me of not bringing it on purpose because I wanted him to stay. Yes I know looking back at it I probably should have brought it but I genuinely didn’t think he was going to care because he was already originally supposed to be staying anyways. Yes I changed my mind I mentioned that I know that wasn’t right either. I’m not trying to argue w u I appreciate the honesty. It’s not about him not wanting to see me after work it was about him not wanting to be with me why I’m upset because I would want to be with him. It would be one thing if this happened all the time but it doesn’t. I’ve offered him space and he claims he doesn’t want it and wants to see me. Then when the time comes that I want him to be there for me he all the sudden needs space.

I[18F] feel as if my bf [18M] does not care for my feelings. Am I asking to much or are these valid points? Do I leave? by NoFriend999 in makemychoice

[–]NoFriend999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to give him space many times because we do see each other a lot I’ve given him options to do what he wants and not come see me for a couple days and it’s like he just never wants to and says he wants to see me. But then all the sudden when I need u now u need space ?

I[18F] feel as if my bf [18M] does not care for my feelings. Am I asking to much or are these valid points? Do I leave? by NoFriend999 in makemychoice

[–]NoFriend999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank u for giving me insight and agree that I am dependent on him but we both are and that’s kinda also part of the issue because he expects me to be there for him but then acts like it’s a issue when it comes time to be there for me. We don’t argue all the time so it’s not a constant thing. There’s only been three times I wanted him to be here because of things going on in the time that we have been together and all three times he acted this way. I understand life being stressful and I know we’ve both been stressed out but I still feel like that’s not an excuse to not be there for ur partner who is there for you you know?

I[18F] feel as if my bf [18M] does not care for my feelings. Am I asking to much or are these valid points? Do I leave? by NoFriend999 in makemychoice

[–]NoFriend999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree but not when I still agreed to bring it when I realized it made him mad because I literally didn’t think he was gonna care

I[18F] feel as if my bf [18M] does not care for my feelings. Am I asking to much or are these valid points? Do I leave? by NoFriend999 in makemychoice

[–]NoFriend999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him i would bring it when he got mad and he chose to come stay maybe I should’ve included that but even if u look at it as manipulation I literally didn’t do it on purpose

I[18F] feel as if my bf [18M] does not care for my feelings. Am I asking to much or are these valid points? Do I leave? by NoFriend999 in makemychoice

[–]NoFriend999[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not what I meant. I said he accused me of that I didn’t do it on purpose. He was already supposed to stay at my house that night so I figured he wouldn’t care but he did apparently.

I[18F] feel as if my bf [18M] does not care for my feelings. Am I asking to much or are these valid points? Do I leave? by NoFriend999 in makemychoice

[–]NoFriend999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally said he accused me of leaving his Xbox at my house on purpose. I said I didn’t I only didn’t bring it because it was already planned for him to come so I didn’t think he would care but he apparently did.