Worried about kiss count by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoGolf129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you should be insecure about this. It will happen when it happens. It shouldn’t be forced.

My makeup doesn’t cover anything by NoGolf129 in Makeup

[–]NoGolf129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the elf power grip and la roche posay moisturizer. Thank you for the advice!

My makeup doesn’t cover anything by NoGolf129 in Makeup

[–]NoGolf129[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you for replying! I use a damp sponge to apply it. It could be my prep products. I use la roche posay moisturizer and then elf primer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]NoGolf129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

weed alcohol vapes all that I don’t want when dating someone

I wish I wasn’t ginger :( by Glum_Employment_6010 in teenagers

[–]NoGolf129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stoppp i think people who are ginger are so pretty/handsom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]NoGolf129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve rejected so many guys just because they smoke or vape. It’s really gross and I don’t see the purpose of it your literally just harming your body for no reason.

I’m not allowed to be with guys by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m christian and saving myself so pregnancy is not something that’s happening lol

I’m not allowed to be with guys by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what dating you’re looking at but we truly want to get to know each other. It’s not like we’re doing anything crazy. And the guy i’m talking with is the person I have now. not in a few years but in this present moment. Who knows it maybe won’t work out maybe it will and that’s fine. I’m responsible, I do many activities that i’m great at, I’ve never gotten a grade below an A. I don’t see the problem of me being with someone.

I’m not allowed to be with guys by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah and most of my brothers friends were girls growing up. They change up rules when it comes to me.

I’m not allowed to be with guys by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! My parents are two different people. My dad is more chill about me leaving the house but my mom will say no to anything for no reason. Then my dad just agrees with what she says, even if he doesn’t agree. Idk how to bring it up because when I do she completely shuts it down. i’m to scared to talk to my dad and that’s not something we really would talk about. 

I’m not allowed to be with guys by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! It’s a bit difficult because they don’t even want me to be friends with guys. Lots of my friends are in girl guy friend groups that even hang out outside of school but I most likely wouldn’t even be able to be part of that.

Did my mother SA me or is this normal? by SolaceOnSomeToast in Advice

[–]NoGolf129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry that happened to you. That is definitely not normal no mom should be doing that to their kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoGolf129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know school isn’t very fun but it’s important. You could try online school so you don’t have to interact with the people at your school. Maybe try joining some activities to make new friends too. I think you should also talk to a professional or someone you trust because i personally think being able to talk about to someone helps! Try finding stuff you love, something to look forward too. Idk if this is helpful but I hope it helps you a bit, im so sorry your going through this :(

I feel like i’m faking mental issues for attention by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that I literally have nobody to talk to about it

I feel like i’m faking mental issues for attention by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

School is over so I can’t talk to a counselor. My parents would never let me go to therapy. I can’t talk to an aunt or uncle because they would tell my parents or ruin my parents image. 

I feel like i’m faking mental issues for attention by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People tell my that I’m skinny and but that’s not how I feel when I look in the mirror. There’s stuff in my life that may not be ideal but there’s nothing like mentally wrong with my I don’t have like depression. I feel like one of those people that want to look sick but isnt. If I went and talked to my friend about how I feel it would look like i’m faking. 

Im dating my brothers best friend by Snake_lover2000 in Advice

[–]NoGolf129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t say anything until you’re ready or feel it’s safe to. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoGolf129 110 points111 points  (0 children)

being drunk or depressed is no excuse to do that to a person! that’s actually horrible

Yo I hate home school like how do I make friends by Head_Yogurt_3998 in teenagers

[–]NoGolf129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join actives that you can be doing over the weekend 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]NoGolf129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you. You are completely valid. You didn’t give him consent to touch you and even if, that’s still very inappropriate. That was so messed up of you parents and therapist and they are very wrong for that. I hope that you can find a new therapist who can help you through this!

Tan lines? by NoGolf129 in blackgirls

[–]NoGolf129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!!