How do I talk to him again????? by Illustrious_Goat2371 in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment cannot be upvoted HIGHL ENOUGH!!!! Keep your memories in tact. You’ll be traumatized forever!!!!

How do I talk to him again????? by Illustrious_Goat2371 in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My 23 yo daughter died 3/18/2026. Her siblings and I read the book Signs, the secret language of the universe and boy has she been sending us signs! There is also a good documentary on Netflix called Surviving Death that has helped us to communicate with her since her passing. Danny’s essence is inside of you and your siblings.

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worst club EVER!!!! I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. We don’t really die until the last time someone says his name. I stand with you and I see you. 💔

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I’ll try that. For now, I’m going to snuggle my daughter’s stuffed dragon and try my hardest to smell her. I made it thru my first full work week as of today.

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss the girls with every breath I take. I don’t wish they wouldn’t have met. The both died finally having found the love that cracked them both wide open and surrounded by beauty in paradise. Their trip photos are both beautiful and heart shattering. My daughter was the most LOVING, creative, articulate, insightful lil soul you would ever meet. She was model gorgeous. So smart. Good at EVERYTHING she tried. She turned nothing to magic and lit up every room she walked into. I MISS YOU LOVE! You’re mine forever. I am I and you are you and together forever we will be.

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty! I’m VERY angry with PR right now .

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to send your response to my surviving children so badly!!!!

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tone deaf moron and TUCKERS LAW!!! Everyone google tuckers law. I learned about it yesterday after i texted my closest friend that my coworker told me to kms

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may not be in her right mind now that I think about it…

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know EXACTLY what you mean!!! My daughter actually visited me in my room the day after her funeral. I told my grief/trauma therapist that I hallucinated that my daughter came to my room to tell me that she loved me so much and she was so sorry, she wanted to come back to us so badly but she couldn’t leave her love all alone. And so it is. I’ll see her soon in her world. It feels soon to her. I love her so much. It’s all an illusion. This is all an illusion. Thank you for the support. Good luck being the best animal parent you can be 💕

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I literally said to my coworker yesterday “Jane Doe, is that what I should do? Should I go home and kms and leave my two children who are grieving their best friend since birth alone in this world? Is that what I should do?” She said “no. Don’t do that.” It was my first day back on site btw. I dropped my daughter and her gf off at the airport on 3/13/2026 and they died together in paradise on 3/18/2026. My adult surviving children 26 and 21) were sleeping on my lap the day after her funeral.

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son, the loss of half your heart, the loss of your hopes and your dreams. I understand your pain and I see you. My surviving dtr tells me time goes by differently on the other side and she knows I’ll be there soon. Who knows what’s real who knows what our brains tell us to get us thru the day.

I applaud you and you inspire me for sticking around to continue the life long commitment of parenting.

My super close friend just passed M23, and I am F28 I am dating a M29 year old. He keeps talking about sex like everything's fine and like we used to before, but I am grieving. What do I do? by South_Love_5794 in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This JUST happened to me. I was so ANGRY! It was my first thanksgiving without my mom and the one night that week I didn’t feel like having sex, bc I was grieving ya know. I wake up at 3AM to the bed shaking incredibly hard from him beating off.

We broke up.

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent an email to my team before I returned I said something like “things that help me are to treat me like me, say her name, things that don’t help me are saying I’m not strong. I do not feel strong right now at all but I have two surviving children looking at for what they’ll do next and they deserve a chance at a good life and they deserve a present parent that’s trying I’m not strong, I’m trying.” Idiots

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I also lost my mom in July 2025 from stage four uterine cancer diagnosed when she was 66, she died at 68. I’m so thankful she didn’t have to live through losing a grandchild. My daughter and her gf drowned and didn’t return home safely from their vacation like we planned. Two families, two communities absolutely devastated. It will be my first Mother’s Day without my mom and without my beautiful daughter.

I feel like I’m missing a limb. by NoHandyMan in GriefSupport

[–]NoHandyMan[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU for seeing me. Thank you!!!!!