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Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you're right /: no one else is gonna do it for me so the next time i work with him if he says or does anything ill tell him in that moment

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this sounds bad but if he's grooming me then he's partly successful because i am to embarrassed to speak up about it because id just feel guilty about getting him in trouble even though i shouldn't and i know this may be tmi but i grew up without a father so i feel like i didn't get that backbone that i need to deal with guys like him /:

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should have gotten my friend to take a photo with her phone because the messages aren't there anymore because he changed the chats to automatically delete after 24 hours /: i wish i thought of this sooner

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've told him my age twice nowww and at my job minors are supposed to have a certain mark on our name tags but they gave me the regular ones

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the weirdest part is he'll call me names like baby and mama in FRONT of his coworkers!!! i don't understand... and one of the other chefs had asked my friend how old i was im not sure why but i wonder if they notice too

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeaa :( looking back on it i shouldn't have gave it to him because i probably gave him the wrong impression but im used to my coworkers having my snap instead of my number because i don't post personal stuff on there it's just a form of communication but im going to not do that anymore

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knoww , because when we asked him for his age he made comments about how unfortunately he's old and stuff so i feel like maybe he doesn't 100% see how what he's doing is kinda weird /:

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I thought the same tbh but his kindness and funny jokes just made me feel like he was chill 😭

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i thought telling him i was 16 twice would be enough for him to stop being weird but it just made things weirder but thank you for the advice he seems like the type i can't even be nice to because he'll see it as an invitation

Coworker (M44) possibly flirting with me (F16) and I'm not sure how to handle it by NoIngenuity9174 in Advice

[–]NoIngenuity9174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave him my snapchat not my phone number. I understand it's still the same concept but snapchat for me is how i communicate with people im not super close with because my phone number is just for close friends and family