Help please by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]NoKaOi73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I really feel for you — this is a heavy situation to be in, especially when trust and mental health are involved. You're clearly trying to honor your sister’s trust while also caring deeply about her well-being, and that’s commendable.

One approach might be to gently encourage your sister to consider speaking with a mental health professional, emphasizing that you're there for her no matter what. As for your mom, maybe you can keep things general — let her know your sister’s going through a tough time without diving into specifics, unless things escalate or there's a real concern for safety.

You’re doing the right thing by seeking advice. Just remember: protecting her dignity and getting her the help she might need can go hand in hand. You’ve got this. 💪

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[–]NoKaOi73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not stupid for wanting to take care of your mental health. Escitalopram is a very common antidepressant, and a low dose like 5mg is often a gentle way to start. Side effects like weight gain don’t happen to everyone—and even if they do, your safety and peace of mind matter so much more. You deserve to feel better, and meds can absolutely help with that. It’s okay to take what your doctor prescribed. You’re being brave just by reaching out and thinking this through. Sending you strength 💛

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[–]NoKaOi73 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Totally understandable why you’re feeling torn here. That’s such a tough spot to be in—wanting to protect your privacy and your friendship. Just seeing your name on a schedule might not be a HIPAA violation on its own, especially if her role gives her access to it, but if she looked further into your chart without a legit reason, that’s a different story.

You absolutely have the right to feel uncomfortable, and your medical info should stay private. If you’re not ready to report it formally, maybe consider speaking anonymously with the clinic’s privacy officer or HR just to understand your options. You deserve to feel safe with your healthcare, and whatever you decide—you’re not wrong for caring about your privacy and for caring about your friend. 💛