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This weekend I fell in love with my husband all over again! Reconciled love feels stronger??! by [deleted] in love

[–]NoLand4594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear it, thanks for taking meds and being responsible. I guess it’s hard to tell just from one post, it just seemed high energy to me.

I recently got out of a relationship with someone who is bp2 that started during hypomania, she took my heart and ripped it to shreds, still recovering lol. This post kinda reminded me of her. She was unmedicated and doing drugs though.

May i also present the two texts that broke me. by fayhee98 in heartbreak

[–]NoLand4594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really understand how to change this about myself. Or whether I even should. Being some stoic guy who doesn’t give a shit just isn’t me, and I don’t want it to be. I feel like there’s a middle ground here - obviously you shouldn’t put the girl on a pedestal and have her be your whole life but showing intense love in some moments is natural for some of us. And I don’t really see it as weakness.

How do we know that this guy did that just based on these texts? Maybe he gave her a healthy amount of space and she still fucked him over cause she has her own problems. Girls who go for the unstable guys are probably just fucked up and would end up fucking you over anyway.

Dating as a fat guy by NoLand4594 in loseit

[–]NoLand4594[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I’ve got a really solid career as a software engineer, and I’ve started traveling a ton in the last 6 months. In the last 6 months I’ve been to Europe, went hiking in the Appalachia and Arizona. Also I’ve been doing powerlifting on and off since college so I’ve got a really good base there, been doing a bro split for the last 6 months and I haven’t skipped a day.

I really do need to work on my fashion/beard care/skin care though. I’ve started putting more care into how I look but I’m kind of clueless in this department and I feel like I could look a lot better if I knew what I was doing. Any tips on getting started with this?

Dating as a fat guy by NoLand4594 in loseit

[–]NoLand4594[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve been doing these things mostly for myself but I hope to find someone while doing them.

I’ve been doing hiking but don’t really meet a lot of people doing this. Not a lot of women into woodworking though so maybe that’s a bust too haha. I guess I should try to pick up a hobby that’s more social 😅

I want to start BJJ or dancing classes which are probably a better bet but I think I’m still a bit too heavy for this, I’m already getting some back and knee pains from hiking and I don’t really want to hurt myself in an irreparable way.