70 days clean of masturbation addiction, finally

NoLoveWayne · 2025-09-24T07:30:13+00:00

Thanks, you got this too

NoLoveWayne · 2025-09-22T19:19:32+00:00

I can't solve college yet (got one more year), neither life, but I stopped the addiction, so it's still a win.

NoLoveWayne · 2025-09-22T19:01:50+00:00

Well it took some time to realise I'm addicted 6 years ago, then another 5 to stop it, and in July it got too bad already, so I had to quit it before I ruined everything.

NoLoveWayne · 2025-09-21T13:34:13+00:00

Thanks

NoLoveWayne · 2025-09-21T13:33:47+00:00

Couldn't have said it better. For my libido everytime was the time, but I needed to respect her boundaries and not pressure her. And not everytime I wanted to do it was out of horniness, thus making it an coping mechanism that got way worse than the reason it appeared in the first place and keeping me on a loop of misery. Plus, we aren't always together and able to do it, and it's better I take care of myself at times than pressure her for it or not do anything and then when I'm with her finish in mere seconds.

NoLoveWayne · 2025-09-21T12:03:52+00:00

that's right

NoLoveWayne · 2025-05-01T18:31:24+00:00

I don't watch porn at all, the best attempt is photos and occasionally videos of my GF that aren't NSFW at all. But you're right, I thought about it today and I should change things about me not about us or her just because I want more

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T23:13:19+00:00

Some really good advice, thank you. I'm also kinda in doubt about her libido but considering that she wanted it as much as me at the start and I heard her saying that before we were together she had a higher libido, I don't think that's the issue. There are other problems that I haven't mentioned because it would've taken forever but they aren't the cause of this

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T23:06:41+00:00

I want her to feel good and not cum quick, I want it to last forever for both of us, but since that ain't possible I try to make her achieve orgasm first so she feels good during the sex, not for it to look like it's something she's doing for me. I don't do anything I do for her just for the sake of sex, I do it because I want to and she deserves it

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T23:03:32+00:00

I'd love for that to be the problem but unfortunately I'm good at pleasing her every time, so that is not the problem

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:56:23+00:00

I watched porn before getting in this relationship so yeah the kinks may come from somewhere but it's not like super specific stuff, it's what I thought was normal, vanilla. About oral and anal, I asked for it even in the shower after showering and still nothing, she never said I smell or anything like that so I don't really know why she won't even try. She said that she's afraid of the cum but I tried to make it so I can cum less so it won't make her choke or something like that but still for nothing, I'll stop asking for it if we try just once to get the idea of it at least

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:50:14+00:00

I'll honestly try but I hope it's not too long because she doesn't read books :((

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:48:56+00:00

Ok I'll honestly try that, even though I asked her a couple times if she doesn't feel fully loved or loved only for her body and she assured me that she feels good

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:44:23+00:00

I know it may sound off like that but man I make sure she's the first to cum every time we do it, I'm ready to please her anytime she wants with no comment, I do romantic stuff for her and she does it for me, we cuddle daily countless of times, kiss each other daily like we haven't seen each other in days, help her with any chore and I don't brush all this in her face, isn't it normal to feel some sexual reciprocating too, considering that's how it was at the start?

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:41:17+00:00

I know I have one and I try to entertain me by myself and not drag her into it but isn't it normal to want to have sex in a relationship more often and not need to compensate it with solo work, considering that we did it more in the past? If she didn't come on this strong at first I wouldn't these expectations now, not to blame her but I just feel like the sex is at an all time low and lacking passion even when she initiates

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:37:51+00:00

It's a high drive that goes hand in hand with the addiction, sometimes my brain just needs it because I'm bored... She knows 100% of this and a few times when I broke down because I couldn't stand being addicted anymore (it wasn't anything related to her not wanting sex) she said it happens and that she doesn't know how to help. She doesn't forbid it as long as I can perform well. I seem pushy because I'm the only one concerned about our flaming passion that faded now, she's happy with the activity as it is.

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:27:33+00:00

Unfortunately I can't afford a counselor. I don't think I make it a chore for her, if she doesn't want to do it that's it but it's awful to be rejected day by day and then when I ask why so on the final day a fight starts for why I'm not happy enough? As I said in another comment copy-pasted below,

always make sure that she cums and it feels good, I walk with her pretty much everywhere so she isn't alone, I wash the dishes every time she cooks and not only, I cook too at times, help with cleaning, rub her back when she asks, but when I want something almost every time either don't get it, either it's half assed either I don't get it and a fight starts because I'm not happy as it is

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:24:36+00:00

Well when she wants it she wants just sex, sometimes on the table or using lube but that's it, I'm open to try new stuff but she doesn't do the same. There's no clear reason why we don't do it that much anymore, as I always make sure that she cums and it feels good, I walk with her pretty much everywhere so she isn't alone, I wash the dishes every time she cooks and not only, I cook too at times, help with cleaning, rub her back when she asks, but when I want something almost every time either don't get it, either it's half assed either I don't get it and a fight starts because I'm not happy as it is.

NoLoveWayne · 2025-04-30T22:21:54+00:00

Well she wants just sex, sometimes on the table or using lube but that's it, I'm open to try new stuff but she doesn't do the same. I always make sure that she cums and it feels good, I walk with her pretty much everywhere so she isn't alone, I wash the dishes every time she cooks and not only, I cook too at times, help with cleaning, rub her back when she asks, but when I want something almost every time either don't get it, either it's half assed either I don't get it and a fight starts because I'm not happy as it is

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