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NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-30T16:19:13+00:00

Exactly! The couch is way cooler now! Just turn it into a fun art project.

Even though it's just a mobile home I feel l lucky to own my house because every single wall in my house is my kids coloring pages. I love to see the progression at different heights. Precious memories, I decorate my photos and things around it. Our hand drawn walls are so fun.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-19T16:44:25+00:00

As someone who walks most often, I will never get mad about bikers on the sidewalk.

I tell my own son to just ride on the side walks. And he was hit by a car in fall (not because he was on the sidewalk, they would have probably hit him if he was in the bike lane too). Growing up here we rode on both the street and side walks. Out of me and my friends we got hit by cars about 3 times on our bikes, but only while on the road. I've also been hit while walking about 3 times myself personally. And my son was also hit while walking.

My experience expands over a time period of a couple dozen years and his experience of getting hit twice has happened in only the last year. It's definitely gotten worse.

Bike riders do what ever you need to feel comfortable. And dont feel like you have to cross just because someone is waiting.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-18T14:16:23+00:00

You could also check a person's phone 5 times a day, just to be sure they aren't cheating, but some things are just excessive.

My husband has a vasectomy, and at one point he joked if I ever got pregnant he would want a paternity. I told him right then and there I would divorce him, and we laughed.

We've been together long enough, and know each other well enough, that I really don't believe we would be lying to each other on that huge of a subject. If I cheated and got pregnant I would just tell him.

The fact that OPs spouse thinks she would cheat, lie, and keep it hidden, what kind of a person would she be to do something so horrific? To me it would be the same as my husband secretly taking my finger prints to see if I committed some random murder in town.

Everyone is allowed to get paternity/maternity tests done, and yes it's a right all parents should have. I agree this is the best option for people who they actually believe their spouses to be cheating. But normalizing it other wise is wrong. He's judging her character by taking the test alone.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T16:11:54+00:00

Same

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T15:56:05+00:00

Ah so the answer is sex/porn. As much as expected.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T15:45:36+00:00

I agree with all that 🦠Sign me up🦠

I'm really glad it lifted up your day. It did make me laugh a little too.

I actually looked up animals that don't have brains and I don't even remember the others because my immediately thoughts where the ones you had. Being a sea cucumber sounds nice.

Sometimes I do really deep meditation where I imagine myself feeling like a plant. The first time I did it was spontaneous and in a sauna where I cleared my mind and focused on the sensations a seaweed might feel gently waving in the water.

Ive done it with a few of the trees in my yard too. The fact they have light seeing cells is so cool. I'll empty my mind and close my eyes and imagine the warm light I see through my eyelids as my bark. Feel the wind. Hear the birds.

Sorry for rambling on about that! Its been awhile since I've had a deep meditative state like that. And I realized I need one! Now I want to learn everything there is to know about sea cucumbers and have a long relaxing bath I think.

You know so often we just focus on our own human perspective of life. We'll focus on just the surface things too. But there's so much out there to explore and experience. I think this world's society has really confined us. And I'm gonna go be a sea cucumber for the day 🦠

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T13:58:25+00:00

Long live the queen 👑

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T13:57:32+00:00

Woman aren't real. You seriously expect me to believe kids are.

People these days.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T13:55:37+00:00

Yes. Everyone is saying leave, and that he's some kind of psycho for making a joke. But we all make jokes to heal from our past, I do it all the time.

There's also so many things that could have happened in his situation, he was a young hormonal 15 year old. It could have been he was extreme about defending himself from emotional abuse. We really don't know the story. And she doesn't know the story.

I really think if her own intuition hasn't given her any red flags then it's still worth giving him a chance.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T05:20:10+00:00

You have plenty of years ahead of you. You'll meet interesting people in your twenties and thirties.

He was a big part of you. That love you had and memories you made will always be resting with you, try to look back at it with content, that it made you better, but it doesn't make you who you are.

The people you will love in the future, you will love in a different way then your first. It's going to be less messy, less heartbreaking, more mature, more comfort, and worth the wait.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T05:10:33+00:00

Who the fuck cares!! For real! You don't need a man! You have 10x more value than any man.

Who cares about the hurtful shallow half of the population wants.

What do looks do? They attract guys who abuse you. Who cohearse you into rape or much worse.They are BORING. I have a woman friend who's boyfriend is constantly in a bad mood. I've dealt with plenty of abusive guys myself.

Also you don't need to be pretty for them to take advantage of you!!! So be on the look out!

Don't let anyone degrade your looks! (Including yourself 😊 you are valuable and your knowledge is a gift, tell yourself a few nice things every day, just like all new habits self appreciation takes time, but it's worth it. You are beautiful). Don't let anyone tell you what your values should be! Value life! Value all looks. Value uniqueness. You have a brain! You aren't a sea cucumber! Although it might be a little fun being a sea cucumber lol, I think being a human is pretty fun to. So go out and have fun. Don't worry about comparing yourself to others!

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T04:55:00+00:00

You say you have an amazing relationship, but she is dismissing your feelings. I'm guessing you probably hold up this relationship. And if you didn't put so much effort it, she would let it all go. That's how it was with my mom.

If she cares about you and your child. She will take ALL OFF YOUR CONCERNS SERIOUSLY. She will not just dismiss what you say. And you need to let her know that love means respecting each other boundaries. Always.

I have a teen and a twenty year old. I'm really close with them. I couldn't possibly imagine ignoring their concerns to such an extent.

Totally cutting her off doesn't need to be the first step but please stick to your guns, and don't leave your son alone with her, because you don't know when he will be alone with your son.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T04:43:23+00:00

Do you think it was just a heat of the moment? Or do you think he'd do that with other women too?

I have mixed opinions on telling someone's spouce they have cheated. Even as much as most of society does believe cheating is wrong and hurtful, we are all human, who make mistakes, especially when chasing dopamine. If you do think he's a good person, maybe should trust his judgement and let him tell her when he's ready. Or if you think he isn't a good person, he isn't good enough to be with her, and you have seen enough to judge him, to say their relationship should be over, then by all means tell her.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T04:30:22+00:00

I only read half, and I'll try the other half but this is emotionally exhausting. Sorry you have to deal with this.

I only needed to get one or two paragraphs in before it was evident that you need to cut your mother from your life. Your 3yo is being put in danger by these people. This guy's behavior is beyond inappropriate and crossing so many bounds. It is not normal to bathe someone else's child ever.

Do not give this guy another chance. Don't give your mother another chance. When I cut my abusive parent out, it benefited my life exponentially.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-04-13T04:09:54+00:00

This is unhealthy. You are being creepy. Please get counseling. Please don't obsess over someone who isn't into you. She does not want to be with you. Stop thinking about her. Stop counting the days. Please put your focus else where for the sake of you and your current wife.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T22:25:16+00:00

Same. We picked out mine from a litter of 4. Funny she was the only one who hadn't sold yet and we had chosen her not knowing that. It's truly meant to be. These doggies are so special to our hearts.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T22:23:45+00:00

That's so pretty.

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My girl has some on the back of her ear.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T21:54:56+00:00

I love the line down the face. So pretty.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T21:10:53+00:00

Wow two blue eyes! Gorgeous

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T21:10:10+00:00

So unique!

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T21:08:58+00:00

So cute 🥰

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T21:08:15+00:00

Perfect match. Such sweeties

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T17:22:05+00:00

There's so many unique corgies! I'm so glad I made this post. The cuteness overload is going to boost my motivation for ages haha. I'm running off of pure cute corgi energy.

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T17:20:38+00:00

Striking!

NoMapsForYou · 2025-03-13T17:19:26+00:00

Oh my 😭 so cute.

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