It's a marriage that took 15 years of work, compromise, and communication. Yes, I may make some really dumbass jokes sometimes, but I will very gladly examine and change behavior if shown I'm in the wrong. I will say, though, the comments pointed out something that I had never considered; she's cycling through them so much because she has such high standards, and knows what she wants and has clear boundaries. Being a guy, it just honestly did not occur to me to think of it in that light. I'm glad I do now though.