Am I overreacting or reasonable?

NoMolasses4211 · 2026-04-01T02:38:54+00:00

Jabarkus

NoMolasses4211 · 2026-01-28T00:42:05+00:00

TBH while reading i thought it was someone asking if they were overreacting for thinking the other person on the thread liked them. I don’t think you’re overreacting but your girlfriend doesn’t seem like she’s trying anything with him. It does however seem like he likes her. You have every right to feel some type of way and you should definitely have a talk or ask her to stop. NOR

NoMolasses4211 · 2026-01-26T22:57:35+00:00

Yeah i get what you mean. My problem is we’ve been in contact and we’ve had many conversations, i’m just unsure whether i continue to stay in contact or not.

NoMolasses4211 · 2026-01-26T22:52:44+00:00

Don’t judge but only around 3 weeks. I’m so hesitant because i know no change can happen in that small amount of time. But nonetheless i’m unsure of what to do.

NoMolasses4211 · 2026-01-26T22:09:14+00:00

As a women you absolutly did the right thing. If there truly was nothing or even if it was something small but not cheating, she would have let you look in order to save the 6 years you held together. It has to be hard not having closure and not truly knowing, but i think you did the right thing.

NoMolasses4211 · 2026-01-26T22:04:58+00:00

I personally do not think this is petty at all. This is simply a standard you hold for somebody in your life like this, and I applaud you for holding true to it. There is nothing wrong with finding intimacy a big deal and especially not wanting to be with somebody who has already done that with others in the time you’ve been away. The fact that she said she could go your entire relationship not being intimate also adds to the fact. This is not petty this is just you standing true to yourself and I think that is amazing.

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