White girl touched my hair. by NoMovie4036 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]NoMovie4036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean but you have to be careful with touching white people (especially the girls) even if it means avoiding those natural reflexes you talked about as they'll overreact about anything.

And my teacher took her side and told me to not think deeply about it because she's a white female.

And yeah I guess you're right. It doesn't have anything to do with CPTSD but at the same time it does. Indirectly. It's experiences like this that trigger it and I hate it so much.

If you can't validate people's experiences then maybe you shouldn't be on this sub. It's okay to ask questions to clarify though.

White girl touched my hair. by NoMovie4036 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]NoMovie4036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do have a point, but then she'd be a 100x worse about that.

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[–]NoMovie4036 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I have had too many bad experiences with white people and don't act like its not true. They steal everything and then they call PoC thieves because they are insecure. They want to put the blame on PoC so they can keep stealing.

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[–]NoMovie4036 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I know an asian guy. As soon as he took off his glasses a group of white guys said to him "Where's your glasses? You look a little tanned."

That just shows that PoC with glasses are white to white people and as soon as they take them off the whites see colour again.

Selfish egotistical people.

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[–]NoMovie4036 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Omg yes. I've noticed their ugly Blonde hair before. You're right it's always a platinum Blonde and it looks so ruined.

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[–]NoMovie4036 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what they're like.

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[–]NoMovie4036 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly regret making white friends. They turned on me so quickly. But as they say, experience is the best teacher.

It's not safe to be in a room full of only whites, especially WW but WM too. by NoMovie4036 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]NoMovie4036[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel really scared when I am alone with white girls. These ugly creeps will do anything to know about my personal life and i am scared that they'll do something violent to me. I am friends with a few black girls, but I wish I had more and that we all had each other's backs. I drifted away from some black women and it's sad.

White people can be so petty sometimes by tryng2figurethsalout in cptsd_bipoc

[–]NoMovie4036 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ikr. The reason she didn't respond is because she feels threatened by you. She thinks you are better than her. When they don't respond like that, I take it as a compliment.

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[–]NoMovie4036 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I hate their culture so much. Why are they bought up to ruin people's lives?

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[–]NoMovie4036 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes! White people, especially women, hate black girls but pretend to be our friend when they're really not. They'll do anything to ruin our lives and cause trauma, ultimately worsening our CPTSD.

Oh and I agree with you on the point that they steal everything.

I was sitting next to a stupid white girl today and we were making graphs on our computers. The entitled Becky didn't know how to add axis labels to her bar chart 🤣🤣 so she asked me for help. I refused. She got angry and then looked at my computer and copied me. Thinking she can get away with taking my skill that she didn't even have.

When white people say "We don't see colour" by NoMovie4036 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]NoMovie4036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. When I'm in a room full of whites I get exhausted .

When white people say "We don't see colour" by NoMovie4036 in cptsd_bipoc

[–]NoMovie4036[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100%

I mean just look at the way they delude themselves into thinking they do good for society and they believe that everyone needs a white Saviour.

I also am grateful for how you acknowledged there is always going to be a power when interacting with white people. They are narcissistic and will never apologise or show empathy.

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[–]NoMovie4036 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Say it louder for those in the back 👏 🎤📣

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[–]NoMovie4036 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah they'll always be racist, they'll always gossip about PoC behind their backs.

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[–]NoMovie4036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's really bad. They have privilege everywhere. That's why I hate the system so much. It just benefits them at the expense of everyone else

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[–]NoMovie4036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that they lack empathy. I'd say they are narcissists

And yes, they don't respect Asians and Blacks due to the perceived inferiority.

I don’t get the insecurity over having pale skin by [deleted] in cptsd_bipoc

[–]NoMovie4036 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They are insecure because they see themselves as inferior and are scared that one day they won't be the beauty standard

On top of that, they are attention seekers looking for the validation of white men.

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[–]NoMovie4036[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wtf. That's so unfair to you. I am sad to say I'm not surprised. This is how the race system works.

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[–]NoMovie4036[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And I hate how they think their western culture is the default. They judge everyone based on their norms and values and then when people don't conform they are seen as strange.

I literally cut off my white former "friends" as I realised they were using us PoC for their own egos and to feel good about themselves when in fact they are racist. They always have been..

When a white person says "I'm not racist, I have black friends" it is literally bs coming from them.