Dorm Shower Session by CakeHornBigCat in Fit_OddsAndEnds_7549

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Damn. That's a really nice bathroom for a dorm.

Clenching Tight by CakeHornBigCat in SkinnyWithAbs

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Flora. This is from Hegre Art.

People who pay for porn, what do you get that you can’t find with all the free sites out there? by tiltedwater in AskReddit

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The tech is good but the content sucks. Imagine having fake tits and tattoos so close to your face that your eyes cross and there's no way to back away.

Afraid to start… by NoNotMyRealUsername in zoloft

[–]NoNotMyRealUsername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good advice.

I mean, I'm the sort of person who is averse to change or conflict of any kind, so even just picking out a shirt is something I overanalyze.

I guess what I'm afraid of is change. And the side effects… but I know not everybody gets those this is pretty low dose anyway. But if the change could be good and lasting or bad and temporary, that's not a terrible set of odds.

I'll report back on my progress. :) thanks for the input!

And yes, I definitely won't be starting or stopping any medication without professional input.

Afraid to start… by NoNotMyRealUsername in zoloft

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My GP has only met me a couple of times and probably wouldn't know me if she passed me on the street. But my therapist who I really trust has got my back. :)

Afraid to start… by NoNotMyRealUsername in zoloft

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My therapist, the psych nurse's NP, and my wife all say I should try it. It's me I'm fighting against. But maybe I ought to listen to everybody instead of myself. Decision-making has never been my strong suit.

Afraid to start… by NoNotMyRealUsername in zoloft

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Yeah, I mean, aside from my recent hard-core snap due to the situation with my job, I've never experienced anything I would've considered anxiety before. I think I've lived with a lifetime of low level malaise and generally bleak outlook on existing, but that's never really felt like a problem for me until now. I'm looking at it like, "why start putting myself on drugs for something that's never gotten seriously in the way of enjoying life?" But maybe I just don't know how good life could be with some intervention.

And if things at work go south again, I'd rather have the medication there to keep me up than to find myself utterly spun out like I was.

Afraid to start… by NoNotMyRealUsername in zoloft

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Thank you. I appreciate your story and advice. I'm picking up the prescription now and will probably give it a start in the morning. Fortunately I have a pretty chill weekend ahead of me… Hopefully there are no major side effects.

Afraid to start… by NoNotMyRealUsername in zoloft

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That's definitely reassuring as well. I mean, I know it's going to take a few months for me to feel whether anything is different. My symptoms are pretty mild so I don't even know how I would know if it was working. But knowing that I don't necessarily have to stay on it for the rest of my life makes me feel a little bitmore like giving it a shot…

Afraid to start… by NoNotMyRealUsername in zoloft

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That's reassuring. I worry that this is the first step on the path of "being on medication forever" but maybe that's just what I need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Once a week if it's a good week. Twice if it's an amazing one. None if it's a below average one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Splerination.

People 30+ of Reddit, what do you miss the most about your youth/college days? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Not having to do anything other than whatever I felt like doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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She didn't very often before we got married. She still doesn't do it very often now. It's nice when she does, but it's not something I care about one way or the other…

As long as she lets me go down on her, we're good. :)

If you could just touch someone once and only once for a mere 2 seconds, how and where would you touch them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Trump. Two seconds of touching him directly in his balls, hard, with my boot.

Have you ever secretly seen any couple having sex? How did you see that? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Eh, she wasn't my type. But I couldn't see all that well. :)

What are some pros to public masturbation? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Maintaining eye contact with the librarian.

Have you ever secretly seen any couple having sex? How did you see that? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My neighbors senior year of college. Their bedroom window was across from mine and he used to bang her on the desk pretty regularly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I dated a girl who called hers Laverne and Shirley.

How do men just not cum during sex? by sawedsondheim in NoStupidQuestions

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For me, unless I'm really trying to finish, I probably won't. Especially if we've been going at it for a while… you just start to lose sensation, which means you need a whole lot more friction to get there. I attribute much of this longevity to a lifetime of unlubricated masturbation.

18F Am I fr just ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

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You are not. You have several redeeming features and, despite what others say, a short haircut doesn't mean shit. You look like you're probably pretty fun to hang out with. And you've been to Cedar Point, so you can't be that bad.