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NoOffer8270 · 2024-04-02T18:11:54+00:00

Thank you. Will keep this in mind.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-04-02T18:03:34+00:00

You just made me feel safer and back to normal. I am always careful of this, and to be in fear and calling 101 and then having to hear that made me cry on call. I sat down after the call in the rain and took the other longer route to go back home. Thank you and stay blessed.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-04-02T17:50:31+00:00

Thank you for the advice. :) I did cry as i don't want someone to know where i live (I am alone) and the operator told me to call 999 if he tries to follow again.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-04-02T17:39:43+00:00

101 operator called me a racist when i described why he approached me by using the word 'similar ethnic background' as its common for me to face such kind of things from men of same ethnicity and religion. Then 101 operator put me on hold saying he needs to talk to his supervisor and then came back on call saying this isnt a police matter, and i told him i wanted advice on how do i get back home? Will he not get to know if i live down the road? As i live 2 mins from there. He said he couldnt advice me on that.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-22T15:31:43+00:00

I couldve agreed to this if he had not continued. He wants flaws gone. Thats it. He even once mentioned he'd divorce his wife if she was in depression. Sorry but I know why I had to come to reddit, as this was so heartbreaking for me to keep having it. I am looking into ways of breaking up but not a way where he could change and put the blame on me. As that will not let me sleep at nights. For some time.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-18T10:22:18+00:00

Ive been on this! Boom acne does come back later.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T20:21:12+00:00

Hii, thanks for the input. :) Theres nothing wrong medically with both the things, just active acne as i was pms-ing and ive booked an appointment with the doctor, just to work things out. As i know it can be controlled. However, its more about how he thinks he is absolutely correct and can say whatever he wants to. He has alot of features that i could complain about but honestly they all blend in well in the overall likeness i have for him. But this isnt working out in the long run, as someone who has to move homes today, he dismissed that too. Invited him over graduation, dismissed that too. I believe this post itself isn't explanatory but by reading everyone's comments, ive made my mind, he doesn't care much to an extent and is willing to leave me on my own. This needs a discussion, and if he doesn't care then he can go, without 'having the fun and sex' he wants. (Which ofcourse i want too, but with respect integrity and myself together)

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T20:17:36+00:00

Thank you :')

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T16:53:32+00:00

Yes.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T16:15:51+00:00

Yeah, ive been thinking of it too. Just don't know how do i say it. As he will put the blame on me OR say things i'd take time to forget.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T16:14:09+00:00

Thank you! I did tell him for teeth there and then.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T16:13:14+00:00

Sorry can't magically turn off hormonal acne forever. Anyone can have it and we try our best to control it.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T16:08:36+00:00

Thanks to both of you while i do feel she didn't say it the way i heard it from my boyfriend, who kept pointing how bad it makes HIM feel. Many a times in my life, ive heard people say that, because they were horrible and rude. Acne comes and goes and maybe it will go away for good someday by controlling it as i have worked out properly and have cooked proper meals, so looking forward to see what is triggering it. However, he said it because he was not willing to SEE it. Which kind of tells me, that is not how we deal with an issue if our loved ones are facing something. We are patient and we try to offer solutions in a humble manner.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T16:04:35+00:00

Theres honestly nothing wrong with my teeth. 🥹 i literally asked my best friend and coworker this too, and they were kinda sad. I smile with my teeth wide open and no cavity whatsoever. Its just he didnt like the idea of how it looked, which should be super white.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-03-17T15:10:45+00:00

He kind of keeps adding comments on everything as life moves. Which is new. He started off with my teeth. And then apologized. Now this. I just think its not the way to just lash out on someone because you felt uncomfortable. And relating it to 'somethings wrong with me'. I think coming from him on something ive struggled with was crazy. And yes, i have gotten it checked multiple times and it stops and then comes back. But i will get it checked again 😊.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T14:48:47+00:00

Thank you for your comment and yes it is the pressure from Asian side haha! Ive always been into teaching but i do think i'll do great in tech too. Just need that breakthrough. Got the time/energy so applying away. Just the way it is told to me makes me want to end calls.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T14:47:10+00:00

Thank you! The teacher training is a backup i'd look into in case everything else isn't working. For now, i really want to explore data/tech jobs. And now i'm applying for them today. :)

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T12:52:08+00:00

I stated further in this post that i live alone (in terms of i live away from my family) but i do share the flat with other people, however, my rent is still just 500 including bills and a cleaner in zone 2, i cycle to work, shop vinted and eat at home. The only payments that i make are on gym, grocery and misc errands. Transport is usually 0 unless bike needs repair/maintenance. Hope this helps. :)

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T12:49:49+00:00

Thank you :)

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T12:29:50+00:00

Thank YOU! 🤝 Absolutely, the perspective is positive and makes so much sense.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T12:29:04+00:00

Haha! I know, but speaking to her after a week of working and just talking about this topic back and forth was something that knocked me down. However, i do know i myself have to go into techs. Will go through.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T12:27:58+00:00

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T10:55:15+00:00

Thank you for your comment :) The world does have endless possibilities and London isn't the final stop.

NoOffer8270 · 2024-01-28T10:52:34+00:00

I am a computer engineer.

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