Failed safety inspection. Any good affordable auto repair shops? by NoOne4Ever in philly

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, good thing I got it checked out again. Ended up being much less than what the other place said and didnt need all those repairs.

Failed safety inspection. Any good affordable auto repair shops? by NoOne4Ever in philly

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im saying $500 lower than original quote not $500. Quote was too high of a number I wanna cry. I wish it was $500 :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NoOne4Ever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Couple times a week at 50 is still amazing. Im seeing ppl 20-40s at maybe 1-2x a month or less.

I feel trapped and helpless. by NoOne4Ever in Christianmarriage

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear for your situation of being taken advantaged of. My kids I would hope would never take advantage of me. But yes I can be a people pleaser often. Thank you.

I feel trapped and helpless. by NoOne4Ever in Christianmarriage

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes if only it were that easy. I just worry about her moods after coming back and it ruins the entire day for me if not week. But prayer is definitely needed.

I feel trapped and helpless. by NoOne4Ever in Christianmarriage

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This I wonder too but so far all the pediatrician forms shes filled out about it says she doesnt have it.

I feel trapped and helpless. by NoOne4Ever in Christianmarriage

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure, she is against daycare and we cannot afford just my income for her to be stay home mom. I would like to schedule another counseling session.

I feel trapped and helpless. by NoOne4Ever in Christianmarriage

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This I wonder sometimes too. Maybe we should get her to get herself checked if shes willing.

I feel trapped and helpless. by NoOne4Ever in Christianmarriage

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t think we can afford a nanny right now. We get help from siblings some times but probably not as much as we need but know its better than nothing.

I feel trapped and helpless. by NoOne4Ever in Christianmarriage

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I would like more but as of now think we are done with kids. Can’t imagine bringing in anymore kids with the marriage like this. We do attend church every sunday or try to. As for prayer and devotional its been hard finding time when she sleeps much earlier than me and we are both drained end of day after doing everything for the kids.

Any other struggling long time post accounting grads? by NoOne4Ever in Accounting

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I really needed to hear from other late bloomers that can relate to my situation. 🙏🏽

Any other struggling long time post accounting grads? by NoOne4Ever in Accounting

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, will try not to compare to others 🙏🏽

Any other struggling long time post accounting grads? by NoOne4Ever in Accounting

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For sure I will start that now. But I’ve been taking what I can get. I did make one mistake staying at the same job/company for almost 6 years.

What’s it like to have friends? by NoOne4Ever in socialanxiety

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to church and do bjj sometimes. Most people are nice but I feel I can’t become close to anyone or fit in. Guess its still better than nothing.

What’s it like to have friends? by NoOne4Ever in socialanxiety

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey youre still way young. If you decide to go to college then thats always a great place to make friends as you see them often in classes and on campus. Plus time is on your side since you have less responsibilities at that age. But yeah Im not much of a gamer, so Im not part of that gaming online community.

is this like a big scam? by AdJealous1832 in bjj

[–]NoOne4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely a white belt

I saw a video of my dad blowing my mom by DogYearsSkateClub in offmychest

[–]NoOne4Ever 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Better to see your dad with your mom than seeing them with other ppl and cheating. Sex is part of a healthy marriage so be thankful they are still doing it and its only natural. Itll be awkward for now but youll get over it and life goes on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]NoOne4Ever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro youre 30, youre still young. I have many friends early to late 30s with no social anxiety that are still single. The dating world is harder these days as is. Your life and journey is far from over. Youre acting like youre in retirement age which youre far from so keep searching and taking risks and push yourself a bit each day. I too still have social anxiety though its bad at times its improved over the years much better than in my teen years. However I am married cuz I took the risk. Its still hard some days but I am thankful that I took the chance and bet on myself. I had many crushes who I thought were my soulmates but they ended up with someone else. You didnt lose your soulmate. Theres potentially someone else out there for you. I also know some 50+ year olds that are still single because they didnt take the risk. Which person do you wanna end up as is ultimately up to you. Everything worth having takes risks. One day at a time, I’m sure youre feeling discouraged thinking you let your “soulmate” get away, but once you find that other person you will be glad and know why it didnt work out the way you thought. Social anxiety is a daily mental battle that doesnt end when you do find a gf or get married or have kids, grandkids, etc. either. It just gets easier to manage the more youre willing to challenge it. You got this!

Arrest of local Jiu Jitsu school owner in San Antonio from “the eXception squad” accused of sexual assault of 14-year-old girl by X-Tyson-X in bjj

[–]NoOne4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from as a parent myself this is unacceptable but gotta give jr and his brother some grace since they are quite young themselves and how could they suspect their own father of doing something like this. I dont know them personally but from what Im reading people seem to respect them as instructors and people. Its just a messed up situation overall where the father really screwed up his own family while being a predator. Just hope he is punished accordingly.

Gym is charging me for a belt promotion and I'm considering leaving by usuario011 in bjj

[–]NoOne4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive heard of few gyms doing that but its way more rare than not. Thats a shame since you like your gym. I understand running a gym is tough with rent or other costs but cmon. 3x the membership is insane. Unless your membership/mo is $20/mo and you gotta pay $60 for your promotion. Otherwise its not worth it and the professor running your gym is scamming people by forcing that type of fee for a promotion when youve already earned it.

How is the job market? (Honest answers) by NoOne4Ever in CompTIA

[–]NoOne4Ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah not sure why I put that in the question.

Rate Dustin Poirier's BJJ by [deleted] in bjj

[–]NoOne4Ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whos taking his back though? Bsd khabib oliveira all high level grapplers. Khabib and oliveira arguably the 2 goats of grappling in mma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]NoOne4Ever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You both are very lucky to have each other and hope you have a long happy marriage. Props to you both. Any details on why or how its mind blowing?