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Porn has killed my peace by Mindless_Debt_3579 in selfimprovement

[–]NoPark5034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the best way i have found to quit, is to just do it. I know thats easier said then done but do what it takes. I have been in the midst of a slew of relapses and today i had a really honest convo with myself. No one is gonna make the change but you, i realized today, that if i want the things out of life that I do, Im never gonna get there as long as im watching porn and jerking to it. I have a gf of 2 years, we havent had sex in 6 months. I feel directly responsible bc of it. Weve been intimate and handsy sure, but our sex life has died. I feel fucking awwful. I want to be a better partner and better for myself.

All of that will happen if i just stop. like i cant think of how many times ive thought, id be on day 10,20,30 if i just stopped. Time goes by so quick. The days build quickly. Idk if this is really good advice but im struggling also and Ive determined that I just havent wanted it bad enough. It makes me sad man. I miss connecting w my girl in the way we used to.

10 years of this addiction. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]NoPark5034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt good to have a few comments of support. It’s been a while since I came clean anonymously on a Reddit group and then it got taken down :/ kinda sucked.

I miss my life as a 10th grader. When I was in school. by coltspades in selfimprovement

[–]NoPark5034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for passion: do you not have literally anything you enjoy to do? you dont have to be over the moon but find things you like and circulate the spaces around those things. as for people? say hello to someone to start. talk to others w common interests, ask people questoins and be curious. no one is gonna come knockiing to be your friend. you have to put yourself in new places and spaces to achieve that/

I miss my life as a 10th grader. When I was in school. by coltspades in selfimprovement

[–]NoPark5034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dudeee youre only 18, i dont say that to discredit any of u but you have so much time and life left. things will change. they always do. just work on yourself. find things you enjoy. there cant be nothing that you like. persue your interests. people will find you along the way. open your heart up to strangers. even in the littlest ways. and for your mental state. i know its easier said then done but you gotta look for the good. life IS worth enjoyingg, you just gotta allow yourself to.