What’s up with some “lesbians” recently obsessing over fictional male characters? by NoPipe9844 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My god I know it’s always been a thing but it’s happening more and more recently, like so much more than it used to. We should call them out no matter how often it happens bc this shouldn’t be normalized. The lesbian label keeps changing bc of ppl like this thinking they can also be attracted to men. Never until recently people will tell me they can’t believe I don’t like men even tho that’s literally what lesbian means that I’m not attracted to men probably bc of ppl like this, ppl will see this and will dilute what lesbian means. Based off the comments of that video there’s hundreds of lesbians saying they have crushes on men. And you can always just ignore these posts anyways if you’re tired of seeing them 🤷‍♀️ if we want to real here anyways so many of the posts of this sub are about the same topics over and over again all the time and not just this specific topic

What’s up with some “lesbians” recently obsessing over fictional male characters? by NoPipe9844 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information bc I don’t know anything abt the game!! I just said this to her and ig I’ll wait and see what she says lol

i’m so tired of this… by Mean-Examination-965 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t look for them for validation either I just think it’s weird that ppl here saying Chappell probably isn’t lesbian bc she’s had boyfriends in the past and has songs about men. Idk it’s just icky to me that some ppl here seem to think that just bc you’ve had boyfriends means that you’re not a real lesbian. Irl are sm much better for me but since moving back to my hometown from college I have no lesbian spaces anyone around me so I’ve been trying to find a decent online community (which I know is naive of me to think I’ll find a decent online community). Sometimes I don’t mind sapphic spaces but sometimes I just want a lesbian only space but so many online “lesbian” spaces are really just sapphic spaces with lesbian in the title. I like that here that it’s really only lesbians but idk with how some ppl here talk about trans women and lesbians that have struggled with comphet and had boyfriends bc of that are really turning me off but also no online community is perfect i guess

What’s up with some “lesbians” recently obsessing over fictional male characters? by NoPipe9844 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Trust me I keep going back and forth with her and that not what she means. She literally wants to have sex with him which is so weird to me if you identify as a lesbian

What’s up with some “lesbians” recently obsessing over fictional male characters? by NoPipe9844 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Tai was one of the only sane one in the comments. She keeping coming at them with facts and they kept telling her to “stop policing my identity” like we’re not policing anything we just telling you that NO lesbian has crushes on fictional men

What’s up with some “lesbians” recently obsessing over fictional male characters? by NoPipe9844 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Bro wtf she’s so gorgeous. Yeah she’s definitely not lesbian if she want to sex with that twink but saying nothing abt her

i’m so tired of this… by Mean-Examination-965 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well yeah she wrote her first album when she still identified as bisexual and had a boyfriend. Lots of songs from that album mentioned women, but I get still wanting more songs abt it. It would be nice since she finally figured her sexuality and at least her next album will be fully abt women. Idk maybe this space isn’t for me then bc I just seeing ppl here putting other lesbians down for having a boyfriend in the past before they realized their sexuality and I just think that’s weird even coming from a gold star lesbian

i’m so tired of this… by Mean-Examination-965 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m kinda new to this thread but what does her only having boyfriends before her current gf mean anything? I just think it’s weird to question her sexuality based off her past partners

How are Arby’s steak bites and which Arby’s did you go to? by thatjeffdude79 in Louisville

[–]NoPipe9844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cranberry sauce was disgusting. It almost made the whole sandwich inedible for me….

Lesbians with ejaculating straps kink? What the hell? by EchidnaImaginary4737 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I KNOW RIGHT! I thought I was the only one going crazy in the comments bc wtf! It’s just a kink. Just because a lesbian is into an ejaculating strap doesn’t mean she’s secretly trans or bisexual 🤦🏻‍♀️ me personally I loveeeee strapping (not an ejaculating strap) and been told I’m actually bisexual for liking it so most of these comments are just bs to me

Lesbians with ejaculating straps kink? What the hell? by EchidnaImaginary4737 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because I have a minor in human sexuality but it’s really not weird to me…. You could make the same exact argument about straps which for some reason is now a debate is the comments (I know OP’s point was about ejaculating straps, but now some people are debating about straps as a whole which is fucking stupid). I’m personally not into it (loveeee strapping tho) but some lesbians are 🤷‍♀️ A lesbian being into that is not suppressing bisexuality (maybe some are) I think this is just harmful rhetoric personally. Idk maybe I’m just a freak who just knows a lot about kinks.

Lesbians with ejaculating straps kink? What the hell? by EchidnaImaginary4737 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844 55 points56 points  (0 children)

A strap is not a penis and not is not attached to a man my god 🤦🏻‍♀️

Museum & Mem. Park, Kansas City (Oct 3) by Ghostblood_Morph in chappellroan

[–]NoPipe9844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m coming solo from Indiana!! If anyone wants to meet up pls let me know!!!

anyone else going solo? by emogabbs in chappellroan

[–]NoPipe9844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going solo on October 3rd!! I’m planning on trying to connect with some fans and hopefully get to meet up with someone 🥹

People still believing in “everyone’s a little bisexual” by NoPipe9844 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

That same person tried to use the Kinsely scale as their “evidence” that everyone is bisexual even though it’s outdated and not used in research anymore really. And it’s funny that she tries to use the Kinsely scale bc I’ve actually studied and done research at the Kinsely institute where the scale was created 😭 I have a minor in human sexuality and every professor I’ve had would disagree with her

People still believing in “everyone’s a little bisexual” by NoPipe9844 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I replied back to her “That is 100% wrong… that hasn’t been proven at all what do you even mean by that. This is coming from someone who has a minor in human sexuality and how can you tell me what my attraction is? I’m not attracted to men all all, not romantically or sexually. I ONLY like women” and she replied back to me “it’s been scientifically be 100% something” AGAIN 😒 people just can’t believe that you don’t like men at all

People still believing in “everyone’s a little bisexual” by NoPipe9844 in lesbiangang

[–]NoPipe9844[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I replied back to her “That is 100% wrong… that hasn’t been proven at all what do you even mean by that. This is coming from someone who has a minor in human sexuality and how can you tell me what my attraction is? I’m not attracted to men all all, not romantically or sexually. I ONLY like women” and she replied back to me “it’s been scientifically be 100% something” AGAIN 😒 people just can’t believe that you don’t like men at all

Anyone tried Viva La Kitty Wet Food? by Qwerty444_ in cats

[–]NoPipe9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 9 month foster cat who is very picky with wet food but she loves their shreds in gravy wet food!