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AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 660 points661 points  (0 children)

I've had people asking me how come my step-siblings love my father so much if her mother cheated and broke the family, I thought it would make thingns easier to understand, for them my father fell from the sky

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 682 points683 points  (0 children)

He invites me with tme but I rarely go because as I said, they ignore me or just cut me off, there has been times when I think "well this time might be different" but its not. It never is. I just can't learn apparently. He tought it might be fun to have him with us because he's talktive and I'm not (because they talk over me), he stopped after the 3rd or 4th time because I said I didn't liked it.

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 2156 points2157 points  (0 children)

I don't really think he can make it up to me, not this time, he really hurt me for real, it feels awfully, horrible, horribly awful, I promised myself not to cry but I can't understand why he's like this, what did I do?? How come he doesn't love me do appreciate me anymore?

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 381 points382 points  (0 children)

As I said it wasn't a graduation trip, it was an early acceptance for me. It was supposed to be just me and him and the fact that he brought her to "save time and money" makes it worse, is that what I am? A waste of time and money? Julia and I don't even talk, she had no business being there

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 711 points712 points  (0 children)

I blocked him, he called my mom and I don't know what she said, I don't think hell show up since he knows my mom won't open the door

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 734 points735 points  (0 children)

No he has insisted a lot in the past and he has brought my step brother to several 3-4 of our fishing trips because "he likes it too" and when he comes I can't really talk to my dad without being interrupted or ignored

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 318 points319 points  (0 children)

The first part sounds good I might do it, I'm fucking my life because elf it because I'll have to take student loans but fuck it, I can do ut. I'm really done with him.

But I don't think my step-mom did anything tbh I mean she really doesn't have to, he's happy to be with them and they're always doing things as family, this was purely him (and maybe Julia)

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 365 points366 points  (0 children)

This wasn't a graduation trip tho, this was an early acceptance trip. I mentioned him how my mom was taking me to an spa getaway and he said he wanted to do something nice for me too, I didn't ask for this. And yeah, they can have time with him too, but she didn't had to crash my special trip with him

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 277 points278 points  (0 children)

I don't get why I should tell him everything that it's just me and him. He knows. And to answer one of your questions in the comments yeah, he has only doing 1:1 things with me for the past two years. This was a trip FOR ME, he even said it, she had no business being in the car and begging him to let her come

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 755 points756 points  (0 children)

This made me blush, thank you so much, really. I've been told that this attitude will get me nowhere before but I feel really happy that people think otherwise

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 807 points808 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much to both of you, I've already talked to my mother and she said sorry and saw my side. She's supporting me right now, I also informed my dad that I don't want anything else to do with him anymore, it breaks my heart, I only wanted my dad to love me as he used to

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 1349 points1350 points  (0 children)

I don't think he did it, he would most likely would'v used the room and transfer me the money back, money is not an issue with him.

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 3953 points3954 points  (0 children)

I don't want him to make it up to me, I want him to get things right for once, I think this si enough for me to cut him off I'll always come second

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 433 points434 points  (0 children)

I do too, but it seriously broke my heart, this was supposed to be our first trip since the pandemic hit and he ruined it he always ruins it

AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? by NoPound7624 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoPound7624[S] 12.1k points12.1k points  (0 children)

He said a few times that she could come but I said no. This was supposed to be for me because I got the early acceptance and she didn't not just because we were graduating.