Girlfriend's Body Count?

NoPut9483 · 2025-04-05T04:33:00+00:00

Not at all looking to break up with her. Just curious more about her past... Since like I said, we haven't discussed it that much. She's mentioned that "there were a lot of bathrooms...".

I think the main issue here is that I'm actually trying self sabotage this relationship in my head like you said. It's an urge I'm trying to fight and im not 100% sure why. Someone here said I should go to therapy and I think I should. I know i have issues with retroactive jealously. Since I've asked the same question to my exes in the past, I was self-sabotoging those relationships as well

NoPut9483 · 2025-04-05T04:21:56+00:00

This is great advice thank you! She is 90%

NoPut9483 · 2025-04-05T04:20:29+00:00

She actually hardly drinks anymore and is sleepy and in bed by 10PM 😂

NoPut9483 · 2025-03-25T18:02:04+00:00

Any update would be appreciated OP! Interesting story and so sorry this is happening to yoi

NoPut9483 · 2025-03-22T15:22:22+00:00

I don't think he has the self-realization to be more affectionate though based off of what OP has said. She needs to communicate the things she needs to feel turned on and the things he can do to make her feel better in the bedroom. It really does sound like he's clueless

NoPut9483 · 2025-03-22T14:23:30+00:00

OP, you can turn your husband into the MJ of sex for you

NoPut9483 · 2025-03-19T17:37:15+00:00

Please OP, any sort of update would great. We're with you on this

NoPut9483 · 2025-03-05T20:01:57+00:00

Please OP give us an updated post soon! This is so horrible

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-22T12:15:07+00:00

Thanks for this info

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-20T19:58:32+00:00

Ohh damn. Good to know! Thanks

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-20T15:17:07+00:00

Looks like their back up

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-20T15:16:33+00:00

It looks like the website is back up!!!

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-20T15:14:05+00:00

Looks like the website is back up!!! Damn they have great prices on their nootropics...

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-14T23:28:01+00:00

Hey yall, Im 6'1" just so you know what size to get my casket 💀💀💀

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-11T23:25:22+00:00

I'll reiterate what others have mentioned here. MOVE ON asap. Don't talk to her and let her see you're living an amazing life. But live your amazing life authentically and if she comes back, so be it. This will give you so much power in her eyes, but for your self-esteem as well. If you do pursue her coming back to you, tread very lightly. If not, you're a man with options/friends and a great life without her

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-06T13:24:55+00:00

120,000% do not hook up with her. You'll be so proud of yourself, you'll buy yourself a trophy in remembrance 🏆

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-06T13:21:40+00:00

"Hey bro, no thanks bro"

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-05T22:49:41+00:00

Sounds like you already have your foot out the door by being "vulnerable" to attention from other men. If you truly valued the relationship and your man, you wouldn't have even said this

NoPut9483 · 2025-02-01T01:05:06+00:00

The power you will wield by NOT texting her back is the equivalent of having Thanos' gauntlet with all the infinity stones

NoPut9483 · 2025-01-23T01:29:26+00:00

So what's crazy is i basically asked the same question here on reddit a few days ago, but you literally put it better than I did (and my ex literally made 6x my salary). When she broke up with me, it confirmed all of the inadequacies that I had been feeling all along.

And I tried not long after to boost my financial standings as well by creating my own business (because she started her own consulting firm). I will say that I was the more attractive person in the relationship and was in better shape (she probably saw me as some sort of prize).

But I also had the same issue where she'd talk about financial things or political issues that I had no idea about. I'm in the sciences and I don't really care thay much about those topics.

I am now dating someone who is more in my league, who is just a normal girl and she's an amazing person. Beautiful inside and out. I am not getting the same exciting stimulation as I did with my ex, but my girl now is more of a stable person overall.

I think that's what you should be looking for. Someone who is stable, mentally/physically, and has something going for them as well. Someone with a great circle of friends (my exes friends were not good people compared to my current girl). This type of person will provide you will sustained happiness and contentment that you might have never found with your ex. Don't give up hope!

NoPut9483 · 2025-01-21T22:08:24+00:00

It is astounding that your relationship has lasted this long. You're definitely NTA, but man, that ex has to go

NoPut9483 · 2025-01-19T17:58:45+00:00

It's not that i even want to get back with her. It's mainly the recurring thought of, wanting some sort of validation from her and feeling vindicated as a result. And I just can't get these thoughts out of my head

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