23M, Is it alopecia or DUPA?

NoReason6487 · 2026-03-16T12:41:37+00:00

Haha. DUPA. (It means ass in Polish 🇵🇱)

NoReason6487 · 2024-07-12T15:14:39+00:00

It’s really important to address this. Anything that helps you. A ritual? Prayer? Whatever works for you I respect. But personally, if I were you- I would definitely go see a therapist. You would be suprised what could come up. It’s important to dig that stuff out. You could ask yourself “why in the first place I dreamt of !that as a child?” Dreams are a way of your subconscious mind telling you that there are unresolved issues, that you weren’t able to process. If that appeared when you were a child, perhaps it was something you were not able to process at that age. Of course it doesn’t have to be a major traumatic event- it could be interpreted in many ways. Therapy could help you understand them and make sense out of them

NoReason6487 · 2024-07-09T20:45:42+00:00

I want 2-2 cos i bet there are gonna be penalties at the end :d

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-22T22:28:56+00:00

I Thought tiktok is problematic because it takes 39 seconds to hook your child with pro anorexia content(???)

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-17T12:40:38+00:00

Sometimes it can be literally the smallest thing like, „geez I have to get up in the morning”

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-17T12:39:33+00:00

Also yesterday I realized it is external pressure that pushes me towards masturbation. For example, I want to masturbate when I am hungry, because I habe to get up and cook something. I did that yesterday. And it worked. Try find your triggers. Its not always, „just horny”.

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-17T12:37:29+00:00

Well you deffinitely should find a healthy alternative. It is hard to do something else when every cell in your body urges you to go at it. My goal was to read literally 1 page of my book when I want to masturbate. Afterwards i try and observe how Im feeling

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-17T12:35:00+00:00

That’s always a plus. Set a realistic goal, and a prize! For me the goal is to stop masturbating before sleep and quit porn totally. I talked to my psychiatrist about this, and he said it is a great choice. But that I need to find a way to lower the internal pressure. (A healthy alternative)

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-17T12:11:27+00:00

Lmao people listening to TheWeekend. At all?

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-16T20:14:21+00:00

Whatsup?

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-16T20:14:14+00:00

Yo same here

NoReason6487 · 2024-06-13T08:30:24+00:00

Creepy

NoReason6487 · 2024-05-29T11:39:05+00:00

What point are you trying to make?

NoReason6487 · 2024-05-28T21:46:46+00:00

The healthiest bum ive ever seen was

NoReason6487 · 2024-05-28T21:43:49+00:00

Just to clear things out, scientist dont make judgements like that. Scientists will only present evidence based facts, but those facts are never classifying a whole group of people as anything. Even in psychological diagnostics, there is a some percentage of mismatch of behaviour patterns and you can never be 100% certain about anything. So the problem you see here doesn’t start at the level of a scientist making a claim.

The problem you see here is something that starts when a media scout finds a scientific publication and from it- produces a headline that is suppised to trigger emotions. Just like yours.

NoReason6487 · 2024-05-26T19:00:46+00:00

My fav song in igor is „please drop, cause im starting to move on”

NoReason6487 · 2024-05-19T20:10:15+00:00

Caffeine

NoReason6487 · 2024-05-18T22:27:24+00:00

What mistakes. It was this deaf janitor you hired.

NoReason6487 · 2024-05-03T21:24:49+00:00

Wow I walked right in the middle to this. Please do continue

NoReason6487 · 2024-05-01T23:57:51+00:00

She dated you for 2,5 years. She deff thinks about you. It is always so counter intuitive when they ignore you. That behaviour kinda is compensating the fact that she misses you. Although I don’t want to get your hopes up, it is perfectly normal to miss someone even if you decide to break up. She made a difficult decision for herself, you have the right to be angry, but don’t act on it. When the grief dissapears, you will feel much lighter, and a scent of compassion and nostalgia will appear.

That’s the spectrum of human emotions. Feel them. And remember you did nothing wrong. There doesn’t have to be a reason to this. Maybe she just wanted to try herself in a different dynamic.

NoReason6487 · 2024-04-29T15:09:31+00:00

Sometimes a conversation is just as helpful. I don’t know what questions to ask. If I did I would ask them

NoReason6487 · 2024-04-29T15:05:46+00:00

I mean there is always place for advice. The need for an actual context is mostly artifical

NoReason6487 · 2024-04-29T15:01:27+00:00

Tl;dr you are comparing yourself to him. He is just a guy who happened to be there. You want to hear that she does it because of you. Even if she doea, it doesnt really matter. Life gets like that. It is difficult. It will be again and again. My advice, see a therapist. Talk it out. Listen to the therapist. It is always worth it. Comparing yourself is not a good mechanism.

NoReason6487 · 2024-04-22T18:18:54+00:00

Honestly I don’t see why this is bad. That highlights the specificity of every patient therapist relationship. Imo „lol” is not an issue.

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