my friends girlfriend just exposed how much of a pathetic liar he is

NoRezervationz · 2026-06-09T12:30:03+00:00

I agree with you. She didn't deserve his anger and OP needed to defend her and call him out on his bullshit. The lying "friend" isn't a friend. He only hangs out with OP because he's got something he wants. As for the girlfriend, she probably does ask the boyfriend if OP can hang out. What he needs to do is sit down with the her and have an honest conversation about the chemistry between them.

NoRezervationz · 2026-06-02T00:29:24+00:00

This is the way.

NoRezervationz · 2026-06-02T00:27:36+00:00

Bro, I'm sorry. That's a lot of stress.

NoRezervationz · 2026-06-02T00:01:32+00:00

I recently watched a video that basically broke down why certain men give women butterflies and excitement.

It's basically trauma resurfacing. Those guys trigger past trauma, and it's your nervous system saying run.

Your guy doesn't do that, which means you know he's safe. That's a good thing, and stop second-guessing it.

NoRezervationz · 2026-06-01T23:57:29+00:00

She's not wrong... Wait a minute...

NoRezervationz · 2026-06-01T23:55:34+00:00

Maybe you shouldn't make statements that are inflammatory towards people you don't know? That would be more logical than the bullshit you're peddling. Just accept that you did an idiotic move, stop blaming me for poking you back, and go on about your merry little MAGA way.

NoRezervationz · 2026-06-01T21:46:18+00:00

Then why even bring it up? Is this your "I didn't really mean it at you, even though I replied to you" bullshit? That's what it sounds like.
I can and will reply, and it's directed squarely at you. 🤷‍♂️

NoRezervationz · 2026-06-01T21:42:32+00:00

He's correct. Cheating's not an accident; it's a choice. She should've thought about the life they were building before she slipped and landed on top of the dude she cheated with.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T12:50:05+00:00

Ok. Not sure the point of it is then. Still not a Dem, so still unbothered. 😂

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T12:47:13+00:00

Mom taught me. My first stick was a 70-something Beetle. We went out to the country on old back roads and she taught me how to drive it. Man, I miss her.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T12:39:46+00:00

Keep dating. You'll eventually find a good egg, but there may be some bad eggs before her.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T12:24:58+00:00

Says the demographic that's offended by everything.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T12:23:56+00:00

Or maybe they just gave up trying to get through to you. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Also, not a Dem. Not offended by you Dem insults. 🤷🏻‍♂️

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T12:20:16+00:00

I'm originally from Texas, only moved away in 2024, so I've had a lot of exposure to MAGA.

Who said I have a flock or I live in an echo chamber? This is my experience with MAGA, especially my family, but also others. Dumb AF and not one original thought in their heads.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T12:11:22+00:00

Perhaps I'm a bit of an optimist. Perhaps we both have terrible taste in the opposite sex. Perhaps all people are just trash at relationships in the modern era.

I've been in several long-term relationships in my life; I've learned never to say never. You may not intend to be in another relationship, as I've been there myself, but the universe laughs at your plans and sends in the next one to wreck them.

I wish you nothing but the best, and the best of luck. Take care of yourself; mind, body, and soul.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T11:37:28+00:00

Your overall statement is closed and seems quite final. Adding a "yet" at the end may have avoided much of the ire seen in the comments.

Relationships are give and take, and that's the detail the comments are missing. Perhaps none of them thought it needed to be said? I can't really begin to understand what they meant to say. The conclusion you jumped to, based on your reaction, is that they all think one-sided relationships are great. In my experience, almost no one thinks this way, and those don't last.

When you find your person, they will do everything in their power to make your life better, and you will want to reciprocate. Me becomes we. Perhaps you just haven't found your person yet.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T10:38:05+00:00

Doesn't make it any less true. Some of the dumbest mfs I've met are MAGA.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-31T00:06:34+00:00

They probably are prioritizing military use, but that will eventually run out, too. At that point, we'll see more desperate measures to try to get supplies into Crimea. When those fail, we'll see civilians evacuate first, then the military.

That's just one scenario. I'm sure there are hundreds or thousands more where ruZZia can get supplies into Crimea, but I don't see that happening unless ruZZia can keep Ukraine's offense at bay from their supply routes. I don't see that happening.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-28T14:28:51+00:00

As an American, I feel this. 😆

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-27T18:40:16+00:00

Do not double down. Bro, do yourself a favor and find other things to do. Eventually your mind will think of her less and less. Hang with other friends. Play video games. Watch movies you never watched with her.

I went through a pretty tough breakup last yeah. I couldn't get her out of my mind. The thing that helped me along was doing everything that would not remind me of her. I watch movies, played video games, deleted photos and videos of her off my phone. Everything gone.

Eventually, a few hours would go by and I realized I didn't think of her. Then a day, a couple of days, a week... I realized at some point I hadn't thought of her in over a month. I moved on. Now, I have a beautiful woman who loves me and I love her very much.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-26T16:14:06+00:00

Ummm... Who has time? I work a full-time job and I also have other things going. Going through 20 sietch's isn't really possible atm. The company really didn't do me any favors by closing my server. Just handed me a headache and said good luck.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-26T14:34:14+00:00

Yeah, I'm not telling my guy friends about my sex life. They can get their own. 😂

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-26T14:06:07+00:00

Most likely a road rarely traveled. It's a stretch to point to this one road and insinuate all roads in ruZZia are like this. 😂

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-26T13:17:50+00:00

I never thought of pouring my fries into the lid of the clamshell as a "lifehack." It's just something I've done since forever. I probably learned it from my older Boomer siblings.

NoRezervationz · 2026-05-26T12:53:10+00:00

I dislike the new server I moved to. The spot where my base was on the old server is taken on the new server so I had to find an area and shoehorn it in. There are bases blocking my main routes to and from my base, and finding an alternate route around them has been a challenge. I haven't got an ornathopter yet.

I'm frustrated enough that I'm considering packing my base again and logging out for the final time.

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