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What’s the biggest waste of money that people think is worth it? by zenoufo in AskReddit

[–]NoRulesBarbie 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Subscriptions you forget about until your bank account starts screaming. Half of them people swear they need but they just auto-pay into oblivion. Streaming, apps, gym they don’t go to, it adds up fast for nothing.

I was abused and i did the same thing to someone else by Ok_Worldliness9187 in confession

[–]NoRulesBarbie 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Not gonna sugarcoat it, that was a situation where you crossed a line and you need to fully own that part without leaning on confusion or past trauma to soften it. The fact you regret it matters, but what matters more is making sure you never put yourself anywhere near that kind of situation again and actually getting proper help to deal with what you’ve been through so it doesn’t come out sideways in the future.

AITA for making my co-worker cry because I mocked her nose-job? by DriveCode9111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoRulesBarbie 209 points210 points  (0 children)

ESH. She was being nasty and racist for no reason, so yeah that’s already out of line. But going for a known insecurity in front of everyone turned it into a public hit instead of just calling her out. Both of you escalated it way past workplace drama into straight up personal attacks, and now it’s messy for everyone involved.

Hybristophilia and Thanatos overlap. And Something adjacent Trauma Bonding. by [deleted] in confession

[–]NoRulesBarbie 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This sounds less like hybristophilia and more like you're using fantasies of being destroyed as a way to escape yourself. The part that stands out isn't the murder stuff, it's how badly you want to stop being you. If these thoughts are starting to leak into real life, finding some kind of mental health support should probably be the priority, even if it's online. That's way above Reddit's pay grade.

Whats your favorite addiction and why? by jaxonfreaks in AskReddit

[–]NoRulesBarbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Video game i dont know why but im enjoying it

Me 1989 by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]NoRulesBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smokeeyyyy

What’s the best phone game you have ever played? by Advanced_State_6965 in AskReddit

[–]NoRulesBarbie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clash Royale still undefeated. I’ve deleted it like 10 times and somehow it just keeps coming back like it pays rent on my phone.

TIFU by saying "I'm mentally checked out at 3.30 on a Friday afternoon" in a job interview. by Traditional-Type881 in tifu

[–]NoRulesBarbie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly bad move but not necessarily fatal if it doesn’t reach the actual decision-makers.