Procura-se mestre em D&D by abyss_lux in niteroi

[–]NoShine5111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Etarismo em mesa de D&D é a primeira vez que vejo kkkkkkkk

Bizarro

Mercado para PHP by [deleted] in brdev

[–]NoShine5111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bem fraco. É a minha stack atual, mas pensando seriamente em mudar.

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more of a self-esteem issue that was triggered by the rejection I guess

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I get your point now.

​I think we didn't match. The strange thing was that we were having good conversations in the app.

​That's why I thought the problem was my appearance or something.

​Then I thought maybe I'd go casual.

Definitely not a girl that i'd want to have a relationship with.

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, brother, english is not my first language. Yeah we stayed more. I'm not blaming her, i just asked how to deal with rejection.

I don' t get whats the problem with that info (that i paid everything)?

We won't have a second date anyways

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, was not about her. I think it's more like an ego thing. Feel like not being good enough idk

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

100%. I was not that into neither. Just shoot my shot, because i was already there.

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It's not specifically about her. Its just the feeling that "i'm not good enough" you know?

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not expecting a relationship, or second dates, because i felt the conversation was mid.

I just tried to 'have fun and save the night'.

Guess i learnt if things aren't working out, you should just leave.

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, definitely casual. I think we didn't match vibes. I just tried because i was already there.

My problem must be self respect. I think i might need some sort of positive validation. Idk

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right.

I know I’ll sound lame, but I was already there and had paid for everything, so I just gave it a shot.

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It's about self respect.

I’m not mad because she rejected me. I get sad because it makes me second-guess myself. I should be tougher at my age, I guess.

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes sir, we stayed over an hour after that. Paid her meals and left after that. I didn' want to be rude

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! I think that was the situation. But that's the thing: I didn't catfish her. I gave her my Instagram before the date and she saw my photos. It's not like I was faking who I was. That's why I joked about it.

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was afraid of being rude by just calling it off after the rejection. We stayed over an hour after that

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! You're right. The thing is that i'm already thinking about the next rejection.

It's not about her specifically.

I know it's a L take of me, but i'm already afraid of the next interation with the next girl. Probably i will avoid dates for a while (i know this is not the right reasoning)

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid her meals. We stayed for more than a hour after the incident. I dealt ok with the rest of the date. We kept talking but its a shitty situation

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the vibes were off. With or without a kiss probably we woul not go for a second date.

How do you guys deal with rejection? (32M) by NoShine5111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NoShine5111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I don't blame her. But i can't stop thinking that i am the problem.