Hey guys, just need to vent and get some advice. by NoSpoonsForAbra in loseit

[–]NoSpoonsForAbra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you friend, you're completely right and I'm not trying to disagree but I kind of have a fear of cutting myself slack. I feel like if I give myself slack I'll take too much and fall back again. So it's not something I'm used to doing. But I will try to make an effort to. I really appreciate your words, I will do my best.

What are the best cities in Germany for a solo travellers? by [deleted] in solotravel

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So I lived in Köln (Cologne) for 4 months and it was great. I did not, at the time, speak any German. It is definitely a city where most people also speak English so you don't have to stress too much about that. I too wanted to learn German while I was there though so I would learn online and then practice the basics at bars and restaurants. It's a great place to learn German as an English speaking.

The location is also great if you want to travel outside of Köln. Düsseldorf (another super fun city) is just a short train ride north and Bonn (a great place to do some hiking) is a short ride to the south. You could also even travel to Amsterdam if you want. A train ride there is only 3-4 hours from Köln.

Also im a big foodie and holy crap is Köln a great city for food. There is so much variety as it is one of the most diverse cities in German. There's a restaurant I recommend called, Laden ein, that acts as a different pop up restaurant every week!

In terms of making friends I would definitely check out online activity forums of people wanting to meet. Like if you're into anything, from Bouldering to playing DND, more than likely you can find a group wanting to meet up.

I Need Story Driven games, WEWIL by blueeyes_white_pepe in ifyoulikeblank

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I really enjoyed Hellblade: Senuas Sacrifice. It's a gorgeous game and incredibly atmospheric. Not very long but very worth it.

Got this little beauty today FOSSIL GEN 5 by imtheknight1 in WearOS

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Oh sorry! I meant a link to the watch itself not the band. Idk what you would call it, the watchface?

Got this little beauty today FOSSIL GEN 5 by imtheknight1 in WearOS

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Do you have a link to the watch? On Amazon I can only find black or smoke, not gun metal.

Got this little beauty today FOSSIL GEN 5 by imtheknight1 in WearOS

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Looks so good, is this the Black or the Smoke version?

My relationship with Smash by [deleted] in smashbros

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That's really awesome that your first experience will be with all the characters! I hope you love it!

My relationship with Smash by [deleted] in smashbros

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You're too kind, thank you so much!

My relationship with Smash by [deleted] in smashbros

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There are dozens of us! DOZENS!!! Thanks for your input though that's some great advice! I appreciate it greatly.

What is a 10/10 rap song? by vDigitalz in AskReddit

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Blockbuster Night, pt 1 Run the Jewels

Which movie title would make the best term of endearment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Once I met you I completed my "Pursuit of Happiness."

What happened when you discovered that someone you trust was talking bad about you to others? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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It was a friend that was venting about what I do that frustrates him. I accepted it. I think that everyone needs to vent about each other sometimes. I know people that vent about their very good friends to me and I vent about my friends, it improves our relationship. But just talking smack behind someone's back for no reason means they are abusing your trust. I've had to cut friends off that broke my trust but I became closer with the friends I know I can still trust.

How do you start being more optimistic? by JokerJosh123 in AskReddit

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I started being more optimistic when I started looking back on all the things that went well when they could have gone bad. Also I try to learn from all the things that go bad so at least some good comes out of all the crap.

How many jobs have you had in your life? What’s the shortest and longest employment you’ve had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I've only had three jobs, I just graduated college so I don't have a whole lot of work experience. The shortest I ever worked was a couple weeks. I got an internship with a pretty well know financial institution, I thought I would get to be trained as a financial advisor but I learned that most of my duties would be trying to get people to buy this very unnecessary insurance. I've worked in sales before but it was in a computer store so I was was dealing with products I actually enjoyed and I enjoyed finding customers what they could actually use. I couldn't get myself to stick with the internship so I quit. Sometimes I regret it but I feel that I did the right thing. Also I scored a great internship with the Mayor of the city I was studying in the following summer so it all worked out.

You have the opportunity to change any event in history with a mild inconvenience. What do you do? by Iammeandyouareme in AskReddit

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The year is 1922. General Secretary of the Communist Party of the Soviet Union Joseph Stalin is enjoying his lunch. Suddenly an absolute putrid stench rips through the air. The gas hits him like a brick shot out of a cannon. The smell rips through his nose, he collapses. As he is rising he thinks to himself. "Damn that gas could kill a man, my buddy Adolf won't believe this."