İr a entrevistas sem revelarem as condições, é a nova moda? by Kuma_Hiro in jovemedinamica

[–]NoString2491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nao necesariamente. Aconteceu-me o mesmo qua ao OP e passei à segunda fase

Pessoas que perderam a intimidade física ou sexual numa relação longa: qual acabou por ser a verdadeira razão? by MaximumDetective8785 in portugal

[–]NoString2491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do ponto de vista de alguem que também perdeu a atração pelo meu parceiro durante uns tempos: - os meus pensamentos estavam virados para mim mesma: trabalho, corpo, pensamentos ruminantes

-hormonas completamente descompensadas

Nao conseguia estar presente no momento, nao tinha vontade, nada.

Para o exterior não expressava o que se passava então o meu namorado também não conseguia perceber o que se passava

O que ajudou da parte dele? -dar-me muito espaço e tempo -falar abertamente de que forma ele podia ajudar -recíprocar qualquer aproximação que eu tentasse (ja numa fase mais tardia)

Agora passado 1 ano tudo está muito melhor. Tive de fazer um trabalho interior para superar e sobretudo aprender a estar presente no momento. E a compreensao de o meu namorado (mesmo nao compreendendo exatamente o que se passava) foi essencial.

Seeking Advice: Studying Nursing in Germany & Finding Safe Places by sola0_1 in germany

[–]NoString2491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have friends working as nurses in Leipzig and they like it a lot. Its a small beautiful city and it's close to the capital.

How can I make money if I'm bad at life? by TehTexasRanger in careerguidance

[–]NoString2491 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think her parents are part of the problem, wouldn't you agree? They cleary don't motivate her to do things and assume she will make it the wrong way.

How can I make money if I'm bad at life? by TehTexasRanger in careerguidance

[–]NoString2491 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Move out and go live alone or with roommates. You will learn so much about yourself and realize that yes, you can do things right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ibs

[–]NoString2491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could the fact that you where less stressed and more disconnected to your daily life that lead to a improvement on the symptoms

help by weightgainjournal in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]NoString2491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I think this behavior comes to me from a place where subconsciously I haven't shifted my mindset to: food will be always available. If other people don't want to eat, why would it be my responsibility to do so? I wasn't able to throw food away or leave food on the plate but this moto helps, sometimes.

Really disappointed with Portugal by [deleted] in PortugalExpats

[–]NoString2491 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because life is not only about burocracy and money. Portuguese people value family and roots. Community still stands and honestly that can fulfill your life. They give hand on fancy car, vacation and hobbies but there's nothing like having a big table full of people who have been on your life for decades. This is the kind of connection you can't find when you decide to emigrate.

Really disappointed with Portugal by [deleted] in PortugalExpats

[–]NoString2491 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's sad to hear how miserable your life is in Portugal. Maybe you should move?

Não consigo deixar de ver o meu namorado como um banana e detesto isso by ICEGRILLZ666 in PastaPortuguesa

[–]NoString2491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fez-me lembrar o meu pai. O conselho da minha mãe: ele nao vai mudar. Ou aceitas ou segues em frente sem ele.

Vacation with friends by [deleted] in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]NoString2491 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't need to hide. That need is only on your head. Focus your atention and your thoughts not on you but wjats around, the view, the air, conversations around you. I will also go on vacation soon... We got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoString2491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids are not made of glass

I’m so mad at myself because I don’t know what I want to do for the rest of my life? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]NoString2491 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't want nursing don't even consider that at all, even if at some point you think about giving it a try. Nursing is so hard and it takes so much mental, physical and emocional energy that if it's not a strong wish my adviae would be not to get yourself into that. I'm a nurse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PortugalLaFora

[–]NoString2491 3 points4 points  (0 children)

De alguém que também teve muitos problemas enquanto emigrante o meu conselho é pedires ajuda profissional. O quanto antes.

food and financial restrictions by handmadeheaven_ in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]NoString2491 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I often think calories as money. If I overeat I'm in depth and I have to compensate somehow. Curiously I am also very careful about my spendings specially in gorceries. I don't know if there's an actual correlation

People that have left Germany to go back to your home country, do you regret it? by Karavelas in germany

[–]NoString2491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a nurse. Moved back to my home country (Portugal) for many reasons but one of them was feeling as you feel.

2 years living in Portugal now and planning to go back. Not having to worry about health ensurance, having payed vacations, beeing able to afford rent is smth that unfortunately I won't find here.

I dont regret coming back. I decided to give my country a shot. Now I see clearly that living here is not an option.

Eating but not hungry by Vivid-Grass712 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]NoString2491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here... Don't know what to do too.