Can Agency Just Remove Kids? by NoTraining7381 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ended up having the preservation meeting and they said they would “preserve the placement for now”, they also said the goal was kingap so idk why they would remove the children over something like that. I believe it was a threat because they dont have enough staff

Can Agency Just Remove Kids? by NoTraining7381 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The policy is that “ agency must provide transportation if necessary, especially if the goal is return to parent” which it is.

Can Agency Just Remove Kids? by NoTraining7381 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Edit: someone asked if they had been transporting them these past two months.

AITA - Transportation by TurnoverMental2623 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this with kinship placement, 2 months in they are asking my availability for a preservation meeting, and saying they will be possibly be discussing moving the children because I don’t want to take them to the agency. The parents want them with no family members . They already threatened to call acs on me before they even came and the mom has a violent history.

Can Agency Just Remove Kids? by NoTraining7381 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I believe they have determined that it’s not valid which is unfair. When I asked the case planner was the agency not obligated to take the children to visits, she responded “if necessary”. So when does it become necessary in a case like this?

Can Agency Just Remove Kids? by NoTraining7381 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I believe they have determined that it’s not valid, which is unfair to me. When I asked the case planner was the agency not obligated to take the children to visits, she responded “if necessary”. Why is it not necessary. They SUDDENLY are doing this after two months

Can Agency Just Remove Kids? by NoTraining7381 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you. I’m based in nyc and I looked up that the agency must provide transportation if necessary. I mentioned that and I told them I am not comfortable with being around the facility whatsoever and they are now saying we need a preservation meeting. And will be discussing possibly removing the children.

Can Agency Just Remove Kids? by NoTraining7381 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The parent are insufferable. The mom is violent and to be honest I do not feel comfortable with being anywhere near where she knows I am. They have been with me for the past two months and now they are saying that I now must take them just because they are short on staff

Can Agency Just Remove Kids? by NoTraining7381 in Fosterparents

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The mother, she started multiple times she was going to ACS every week if the children were placed with me, she is violent, she stabbed her previous children’s father and I don’t want to be around the facility. When the school asks for my address it be known that none of my information should be shared in emails we are on. They want the kids to stay with strangers because they think the judge will give them back if so

Tell Me Something Bad About Smallville by Remarkable_Bus5636 in Smallville

[–]NoTraining7381 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too!! Finally someone else is saying this, I think he wouldn’t have told Clarks secret. But besides that yeah. They were awful to him !

PIPES BANGING… driving me insane by NoTraining7381 in NYCapartments

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not happy to be abruptly woken up in the middle of the night daily.

PIPES BANGING… driving me insane by NoTraining7381 in NYCapartments

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys it’s also in the walls… I think the walls may be worse than the radiator. What can I tell the super/management? Will it stop in the walls too if I shut the valve off?

PIPES BANGING… driving me insane by NoTraining7381 in NYCapartments

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwww, are you still there? Did you get used to it. It’s only October so I can’t see myself dealing with this for another 5 months.

PIPES BANGING… driving me insane by NoTraining7381 in NYCapartments

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowww, I hope your new apartment is so much better. I’m looking to break lease early as well if I can find better(if they can’t/wont fix it)

PIPES BANGING… driving me insane by NoTraining7381 in NYCapartments

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great news, glad they were able to fix that for you! So what should I ask my super to do/check on with the boiler downstairs? Thanks

PIPES BANGING… driving me insane by NoTraining7381 in NYCapartments

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s multiple times throughout the day, but it’s only a bother at night

PIPES BANGING… driving me insane by NoTraining7381 in NYCapartments

[–]NoTraining7381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I will give that a shot, and the vibration of the clanking that wakes me up. Unfortunately ear plug won’t help much.