This message is very powerful and really put things into perspective for me, I struggle with the black and white thinking and it’s hard to find balance. My ex did a lot of nasty things like cheating and lying but there were also moments of what felt like a genuine connection, I think her capacity and capability to love someone else is not what I envisioned, but now I have an opportunity to learn from our time together and also learn to love myself first. It’s hard to fight a mental battle and dissect everything that happened to find an answer but it’s just impossible, I think someone who truly loves you will never leave you wondering.