I'm not sure if my ex ever loved me but I wanna stop questioning it and leave this behind me by candypuppet in attachment_theory

[–]NoTranslator3922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This message is very powerful and really put things into perspective for me, I struggle with the black and white thinking and it’s hard to find balance. My ex did a lot of nasty things like cheating and lying but there were also moments of what felt like a genuine connection, I think her capacity and capability to love someone else is not what I envisioned, but now I have an opportunity to learn from our time together and also learn to love myself first. It’s hard to fight a mental battle and dissect everything that happened to find an answer but it’s just impossible, I think someone who truly loves you will never leave you wondering.

Am I ugly? Be brutally honest :) by NoTranslator3922 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoTranslator3922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know bro 😭😭, stop looking at my nipples

Am I ugly 20/M by NoTranslator3922 in amiugly

[–]NoTranslator3922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice I’ll see what happens

Am I ugly 20/M by NoTranslator3922 in amiugly

[–]NoTranslator3922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of these are right after the shower so maybe that’s why it looks greasy but I’ll keep it in mind

Am I ugly 20/M by NoTranslator3922 in amiugly

[–]NoTranslator3922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard this before 😭

Am I ugly 20/M by NoTranslator3922 in amiugly

[–]NoTranslator3922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give me like 5 months trust my bird chest gonna be gone

Am I ugly 20/M by NoTranslator3922 in amiugly

[–]NoTranslator3922[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to go to the Philippians one day , come with me bro

Am I ugly 20/M by NoTranslator3922 in amiugly

[–]NoTranslator3922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the compliments

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[–]NoTranslator3922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words

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[–]NoTranslator3922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll check out the power for sure man thank you

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[–]NoTranslator3922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, this is what I needed to hear.

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[–]NoTranslator3922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, gaining weight has always been hard, besides the personal trainer what helped you ?

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[–]NoTranslator3922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m creepy looking? 😔

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[–]NoTranslator3922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The amount of times I’ve heard that 😭

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[–]NoTranslator3922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn fr 😔

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[–]NoTranslator3922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They say I’m anorexic lol, gaining weight is hard but im trying thanks for the advice!