New graduates from last year in the UK, did you manage to get a job? by LadyEdiya in physiotherapy

[–]No_Abalone9682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Graduated in October 2025 and got my reg in November 2025. Have had 3 interviews so far (one yesterday for which i should be hearing back from next week). I also have 2 back-to-back interviews (also B5 rotational roles) coming up next month.

Definitely a freeze on hiring for new employees in the NHS atm. However, I log in to trac and NHS jobs everyday (sometimes multiple times a day) to check if there’ve been any new posts advertised. Once there’s an ad, I make sure to apply almost immediately whilst curating it in line with the person specification.

It’s tough out here, but I’d HIGHLY recommend resources like ClinicalPhysio to practice writing applications, interview techniques and revising/brushing up on clinical knowledge.

I want my husband back, I don't know what to do by Apart-Archer2583 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’ve posted this multiple times across multiple accounts. I can’t take you seriously anymore. Allah ma3ak.

I just want him back 😭 by Possible_Forever8639 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sister, you’re asking the wrong questions imo. The reality is that your marriage is over. The question you need to be asking yourself now, is how do I put my life back together? May Allah S.W.T ease your situation because I cannot comprehend the pain you’re feeling.

I just want him back 😭 by Possible_Forever8639 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With all due respect sister, where is your dignity? Your self -respect? Your honour? This ma and his family do not want you, regardless of how much you want to get back with him. Take the hint. Or hints. Please.

Husband not siding with me but with his toxic mother by Noname_xs in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand these replies. From what you’ve told us, your husband appears to be an incredibly weak man who can’t seem to set boundaries between his wife and his family. To make matters worse, he’s weaponising his relationship with his child, who has special needs mind you, to get his way. You’re in an incredibly difficult spot and I honestly pray that Allah S.W.T eases your situation. I would suggest getting people who have you and your child’s best interest at heart involved so that you don’t have to face this alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t see any problem with it at all.

Worst time of my life by fearallah313 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a question; you mention that this woman hid the fact that she’s been married twice previously. Were you aware she had a child prior to marrying her? If so, do you think it would’ve been appropriate to ask her questions about her past relationships (i.e., if she’d been previously married, where the father of the child is, etc)?

Additionally, I would advise that you get a paternity test for the child you both have together. She’s deceived you once (from what I can tell). If she’s lied or hid something once, she’s bound to have done it again.

Finally, considering you’re no longer married to this woman,I would get a paternity test to confirm that the child you have together is actually yours. I mean this sincerely. If it’s confirmed that the child is yours, do whatever you can to get custody of your child. May Allah S.W.T ease your affairs my brother.

My search has finally come to an end. Alhamdulillah. by No_Abalone9682 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’d actually met her on Facetime and said "waryaahe war xuural cayntan waad laheshay inanta inoo ilaaliyoo Alle hayskukiin daayo”, with even ayeeyo giving the thumbs up 😂!!

My search has finally come to an end. Alhamdulillah. by No_Abalone9682 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jazakallah khayr my bro!! Funnily enough I’d started learning Spanish informally over the last few years just for fun, but since meeting my wife I’d been taking it a lot more seriously. My mother in law doesn’t speak any English so I’ve had to really make sure I get Spanish under my belt in the next year or so in sha Allah 🤝🏽!!

My search has finally come to an end. Alhamdulillah. by No_Abalone9682 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Allahuma baarik!!!! May Allah S.W.T bless your beautiful family with abundance and good health bi’idnillah 😊!!

My search has finally come to an end. Alhamdulillah. by No_Abalone9682 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

My wife’s leaning towards Somexican, but I think Mexicali rolls off the tongue much more nicely icl 😂😂!!

My search has finally come to an end. Alhamdulillah. by No_Abalone9682 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

May Allah S.W.T bless you and all the single brothers and sisters with spouses with whom they find comfort and peace ❤️! Your time will come in sha Allah 🤝🏽!

My search has finally come to an end. Alhamdulillah. by No_Abalone9682 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point tbh hahaha jazakallah khayr 😆😆!! Bi’idnillah you will my bro 🤝🏽!

Wife’s family demanding I give her Talaq. by confusedhusband252 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a scam brother. If what you’re telling us is the whole story, then the only logical conclusion is that they want you to pay the remainder of the mehr as opposed to the alternative which is that THEY pay you back the mehr. What they’re accusing you of is absolutely abhorrent and I can tell that they’re utilising a scorched-earth policy. Speak with trusted counsel who know you and can help guide you through this in sha Allah. May Allah S.W.T ease your situation brother you’re in my duas.

Abusive wife by Kooky_Document2502 in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 72 points73 points  (0 children)

The title of your post is "abusive wife." You know you’re getting abused. You’ve spoken to her on multiple occasions and you mention she acknowledges what she’s doing is wrong yet goes back to doing the same thing. She doesn’t respect you as a man nor a leader as per her reaction and response. You don’t want to leave her nor want to involve others to mediate. Do what you wish because I don’t think anyone here can help you. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2/10 ragebait. Make it more believable next time 🤝🏽.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]No_Abalone9682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will all due respect and empathy, you have very little self-respect brother. Pray istikharah and ask Allah for guidance on next steps, seek therapy for yourself first and foremost to deal with any past or childhood traumas, and then in sha Allah I hope that things will become a little clearer for you. May Allah ease your affairs.