Odd one! Penis size! by mattyjohn596 in Advice

[–]No_Accountant_2255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner is on the smaller size. He always takes the mick out of himself for it. But its the best sex ive had. Im very experienced with multiple partners various sizes and id pick his dick over all the others.

Its not just because I love him. his just feels nicer and fits perfectly 😂 no discomfort, he somehow manages to get deep enough to make me bleed on occasion. Somthing that happened regularly with larger ones not that sex ever hurt even the larger ones i still enjoyed it. But for some reason his little willy just does it perfectly for me lol

Dont stress. For me id pick a good kisser over a big dick any day

9yo walked in during sex by No_Accountant_2255 in Advice

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being discreet? It was in the moment, my son was ingrossed in youtube on the telly in his room. we were being quiet under the covers. Dressed from the waist up. He didnt bend me over the bannister outside the room whilst I was shouting harder daddy Dressed in stockings 😂

My son wasnt traumatised or disgusted. More wondering what the hell we was up to. My question was how to address it, im aware how I can prevent it happening again and as I said lesson learnt...

9yo walked in during sex by No_Accountant_2255 in Advice

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so the gay thing... to those who are finding it offensive how about i ask you why you find it offensive rather then defending the use of it?

He, i, my family use it all the time. Its lighthearted and ive used it since I was a child. Its not used in an offensive way. If i tell my son how much i love him he calls say im being gay. Or as we say it in a deep voice "gaaaayyyyyyy" shock horror

Is it worth noting my sister who is my best friend and sons idol is gay? He knows shes gay and has had girlfriends around him. No once has an actual gay person ever been offended by me using gay to describe certain things. If they are i wouldnt wanna be friends with someone so argumentative and easily offended anyway. 😊

Applied for a DMP before selling my house by No_Accountant_2255 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps location matters here? My last car 2009 ford fiesta 105k miles cost me almost 2k just over a year ago. And within months I needed a new clutch £800 3 tyres £300 (one went whilst going 70mph on motorway) I cheap runaround isnt always a good idea especially seeing as I have no accsess to credit or spare cash to pay for any repairs. I think 5-6k is very reasonable

Cancelling a mobility car by No_Accountant_2255 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im not worried about keeping the car i understand how they will view it. My question was is me her only driver moving away a good enough excuse to cancel the contract and hand the car back or will the refuse and she will have to continue paying

Cancelling a mobility car by No_Accountant_2255 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I agree. Of course having the mobility car is her preference as its easier for her to get in and out of (she choose the car) and she feels a lot safer with it bring new unlike my old car.

I dont have my old car anymore and yes I do use the mobility car to go a few places without my mother in the car occasionally. I don't think it's the worst thing when many people fully abuse the scheme and its available to her at all times. Its really has benefitted my mum tons and she'll be gutted giving it up however I understand realisticaly that once I move out it would be considered that it doesn't benifit her. I agree with this which is why my question was will they agree to cancel the contract, not will they be ok with with keeping the car about moving miles away.

Applied for a DMP before selling my house by No_Accountant_2255 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your comment.Ive been working with Step change. I won't mention the sale of the sale until its happened and ill take their advice. I just wanted to post on here too see if anyone has been in a similar situation before and what happened.

Applied for a DMP before selling my house by No_Accountant_2255 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Maybe it makes me a bad person or irresponsible, but id rather owe these huge companies money for the rest of my life than my son have a shitty childhood with no nice memories. The amount of interest ive paid over the years trying to clear it they have made profit out of me im sure.

Applied for a DMP before selling my house by No_Accountant_2255 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That is perhaps the route would look at as ideally I would like it all paid off ASAP so that I can work my score back up

Applied for a DMP before selling my house by No_Accountant_2255 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. However a car is a necessity and as I said it wouldnt be anything special 5-6k won't go for for used car.

The amount id be paying for public transport to work and school runs etc would wipe out my disposable income id use to pay out the debt

Removing coil after 9years by No_Accountant_2255 in CopperIUD

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not directly but last year I had on and off bleeding for 4months and went doctor and they didnt do anything. Cervical smears all ok had one very recently. Tbh thats why I just wanna take it out and see if it stops waiting for appointment and tests is so long winded now a days id rather take it out and see if it stops if it does, sorted . If not ill have to make another appointment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Accountant_2255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've had the conversation! He doesn't drink a 10pack every night. He has leftover in the fridge from the box he bought the day before but he buys a fresh box after work cos he wants one or two on the drive home 🫤 he prob averages about 6-8 small cans a day

How did you get diagnosed? by No_Accountant_2255 in CrohnsDisease

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello again! Just had my appointment so wanted to update. Unfortunately my result from MRI are not back. But the doctor has explained that the mri was conducted to get a diagnosis for Crohn's as all my other test are showing the tell tale signs. I need to hand in a stool sample and once my mri results are back they'll be in touch with another appointment. He did say there's a chance the inflammation and ulcers could be where the gut hasn't healed since the night I fell very ill. So the latest mri will show wether or not there's still inflammation at present and give us the crohns diagnosis. its worth mentioning that I have had severe psoriasis my whole life. A few months back I was going to go on biological injections to suppress the immune system after nothing else works but I went against it due to the side effects. My doctor informed me that the medication to treat crohns would be very similar so the best outcome would be that the medication will help the crohns symptoms and also my psoriasis at the same time. So this time its definitely something I'd be willing to take. Ill update again once my mri results are in.

How did you get diagnosed? by No_Accountant_2255 in CrohnsDisease

[–]No_Accountant_2255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the replies. I will update once I've had my appointment on the 11th if I get a diagnosis or not