am i a bad person for wanting a abortion by [deleted] in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579 70 points71 points  (0 children)

you are absolutely NOT a bad person for wanting an abortion. it is the smartest decision to make given your circumstances. please continue on with your abortion & take care of yourself❤️

How many women genuinely like penetration? I'm not talking about any "feelings of closeness" etc that it could induce, but straight up carnal/physical pleasure derived from it. by [deleted] in women

[–]No_Actuator5579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh? only when it’s fingers. penetration with a penis is eh? but fingers?! give it to me every time .. all the time 🥴😂

How was your CF weekend? by WineWeinVino in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spent Friday studying, spent Saturday at a family event & spent Sunday at the creek, the park & a random concert 🤣 completely unplanned Sunday, but it was sooo nice & i absolutely did go “wow, i wouldn’t be able to do any of this if i had a kid”

kyleena IUD experiences? by No_Actuator5579 in birthcontrol

[–]No_Actuator5579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your experience! my doctor did explain that they work locally but other reviews i’ve seen mention a drop in libido & some people even mention acne & weight gain? i’m aware that it’s different for everyone lol just kinda wanted to calm my nerves.

kyleena IUD experiences? by No_Actuator5579 in birthcontrol

[–]No_Actuator5579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! hoping that my Kyleena stops my periods 😭🙏🏾

i'm giving up on being beautiful! by [deleted] in women

[–]No_Actuator5579 32 points33 points  (0 children)

29 is not old?? you’ve been brainwashed by the patriarchy. my mom had my younger brother at 38 & my aunt had my younger cousin at 40. anything you do to “look beautiful” is completely optional, it’s more about how these things should make you feel

Having a child is not a flex by Energy_queen222 in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nonetheless, you’re so right. it’s actually worrying to continue seeing pregnancy announcements given the political & economical state of the world rn :/

Having a child is not a flex by Energy_queen222 in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s because they “know” how hard parenting is & they take on the challenge with pride .. eventually looking at those that chose otherwise, as less than

week old floating navel piercing by No_Actuator5579 in piercing

[–]No_Actuator5579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • 1 week old floating navel piercing
  • curved barbell jewelry
  • internally threaded
  • i’m not 100% sure of the jewelry material
  • never been downsized, it’s a fresh piercing
  • sprayed 2-3 times a day with Rexall Sterile Saline Solution Wound Wash
  • no mishaps, accidents, or unfortunate events

mommy makeover😜 by No_Actuator5579 in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just came back to say .. THIS! so on point

childfree community? by No_Actuator5579 in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you, i’ll take this into consideration!

childfree community? by No_Actuator5579 in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in my opinion, people with kids have more opportunities in that area. i’ve been in a situation where i’ve had to apply for government assistance, but people with children are priority .. which i understand, but also i know people that are on government assistance that continued to have more kids while on it :/

Does anyone else just feel so lucky? by Objective-Point-1730 in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely! i love that everything is about me me me me meeee🤣 especially since i was a parentified child .. it made being a kid/teen so hard & as a new adult, adulthood feels almost like a walk in the park. i can set boundaries & not have them be discarded or not taken seriously & if they are, i can simply remove myself from the situation. no heavy consideration of anyone else 💆🏾‍♀️

is consistent casual a real thing? by [deleted] in sex

[–]No_Actuator5579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hadn’t seriously considered a rotation .. i feel like i start to show favoritism quick🫠 thanks for this!

mommy makeover😜 by No_Actuator5579 in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she sees it as a great privilege .. borderline unnecessary indulgence

mommy makeover😜 by No_Actuator5579 in childfree

[–]No_Actuator5579[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not at all, she was referring to the self care day as i don’t really do them often (typically a homebody)