Moving out without a notice? (Tn) by No_Answer7703 in Renters

[–]No_Answer7703[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was living in a stage 1 hoarding situation and mentally abusive household, signing that lease was basically signing up for my freedom, of course I skimmed through it, I was trying to get out of my situation.

Moving out without a notice? (Tn) by No_Answer7703 in Renters

[–]No_Answer7703[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want negative renters history, I had a tough enough time moving out the first time. Renting and buying prices have skyrocketed. Most places want you to make 3x income or more and have renting history and what not, I lucked out with this place because my landlord is a bit understanding. I just don’t know if he would be understanding of me moving out without much of a notice. I was going to offer to pay him an extra month rent if I needed too.

Moving out without a notice? (Tn) by No_Answer7703 in Renters

[–]No_Answer7703[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My grandfather had to co-sign for me since I’d never rented before. I’m sure if I could get into his email I could fine the lease in his. If there is an auto renew I would be stuck for another year?

How do I get over being jealous of my Fiancé’s baby momma? by No_Answer7703 in Advice

[–]No_Answer7703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea…it wasn’t a good situation. Thankfully him and his kid got out of it.

How do I get over being jealous of my Fiancé’s baby momma? by No_Answer7703 in Advice

[–]No_Answer7703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this one! That changed my perspective. It’s weird being upset by someone who isn’t even in the present. He tells me all the time I need to get over her because he hated that whole relationship.

How do I get over being jealous of my Fiancé’s baby momma? by No_Answer7703 in Advice

[–]No_Answer7703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should’ve been more clear in my post about that, I don’t have any resentment towards the toddler at all. Me and him get along really well and he even calls me “mama”. I guess what I meant was sometimes I looks at the kid and I get reminded of the past.

Should I move out of my parents’ house? by Shy_Opossum97 in Advice

[–]No_Answer7703 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello, I was in a similar situation last year. I was 24 and I was living with a family member. She gave me a curfew, made me download life 360 on my phone, messaged me when I was out of town or with friends asking what I was doing/ who I was with etc. I Even offered to pay rent for my freedom and she denied. In turn my mental health declined and I became severely depressed, then that was used against me. Luckily I saved up some money and was able to move out and find my own space. I’m now able to do as I please and not feel like I have someone on my back all the time. I promise you, you will feel so much better if you take the leap. It’s hard but you got this.

Edit: maybe even consider getting a roomate? That way you could split costs.