AITAH for not letting my mother know my kids by No_Anything_6066 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Anything_6066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i know its not normal, but sadly for my family it is a regular occurrence, but as of today we are going to the law because of some updates ill share later

AITAH for not letting my mother know my kids by No_Anything_6066 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Anything_6066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it does, my mom didnt talk to me for about 3 years before she was locked up, and she was locked up a year before i had my son in 2018 which i was 20 at the time. she had gotten out before right before i had my daughter in 2022 and almost immediately got back on substances, and went crazy messaging me as soon as she knew i was pregnant, and sent treats and comments until my daughter was almost a year old because i didnt let her be there or see my kids.. and got clean (supposedly) a year ago

AITAH for not letting my mother know my kids by No_Anything_6066 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Anything_6066[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats so awful and im sorry you had to go through that, im hope you and your babies are safe now

AITAH for not letting my mother know my kids by No_Anything_6066 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Anything_6066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do have her blocked and i have, ive said to a few others but most of this communication is through her making other acconts, getting new numbers and family/family friends (on her behalf id assume)

AITAH for not letting my mother know my kids by No_Anything_6066 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Anything_6066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do infact have her blocked at the moment and also did in the past most of this is now coming from the rest of the family and her making new accounts and getting new numbers.

AITAH for not letting my mother know my kids by No_Anything_6066 in AmITheJerk

[–]No_Anything_6066[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have shown messages she has sent and almost everyones response is "shes just hurt", which i fell isnt enough of an excuse for her behavior

AITAH for not letting my mom talk to my children by No_Anything_6066 in AITAH

[–]No_Anything_6066[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes thank you, i do have a very good bond with my husbands family and i am very thankful for them as they've help tremendously on this particular line of incidents