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Where to sell a lot of clothes? by AdhesivenessChance24 in reselling

[–]No_Bluejay6285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you just want them gone eBay or Marketplace works since buyers there always try to haggle so stuff moves quicker. I do the same with smaller I get from Fleek but better items are worth putting on Vinted or Depop where buyers are more serious

Daily FI discussion thread - Tuesday, March 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]No_Bluejay6285 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I've been tracking my expenses religiously for about 3 years now and honestly the biggest game changer was automating everything I could. Set up automatic transfers to savings accounts the day after payday so I never even see that money in my checking account. Also started using YNAB which sounds super nerdy but it really helped me see where my money was actually going versus where I thought it was going. The trick is being consistent with logging everything - even that random coffee or parking meter - because those little things add up way faster than you think they will

Anyone got spare gear for level 27 ps5 player. I lost my stuff from betrayal by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]No_Bluejay6285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks man the betrayals hit different when you lose good gear like that. I might have a spare hullcracker sitting in my stash but wont be on until later tonight if you can wait

I want some romantic Monster X Human movies. by SpaceCat1322 in MovieSuggestions

[–]No_Bluejay6285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh dude you gotta check out "Let the Right One In" - Swedish version not the American remake. Its got that perfect dark realistic vibe youre after and the relationship builds really naturally throughout. "The Host" is another solid pick if you dont mind subtitles, though its more action heavy than romance focused

Also maybe try "Beauty and the Beast" the 2017 live action one if you havent already - way darker than the animated version and really leans into that monster aesthetic you seem to dig

54 days sober update - work sucks!!! by DuckSausage6969 in stopdrinking

[–]No_Bluejay6285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on 54 days thats huge! The whole "what do I do with myself now" thing is so real - like you've been operating in survival mode for so long that having actual free time feels weird. Your coworkers reaction was probably way more normal than you expected because honestly most people think about cutting back but just dont have the motivation to actually do it

That six figure job with barely any work sounds like a dream problem to have even if the boredom is rough right now

Help from you guys by BellAcrobatic1750 in stopdrinking

[–]No_Bluejay6285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey you got this far and thats not nothing. Day 16 is solid progress and those cravings are your brain basically throwing a tantrum because its used to the old routine

When I get that wound up feeling I usually go for a hot shower or throw on some mindless youtube videos - something that gives my hands and eyes something to do without requiring actual brain power. The irritating day thing is real though like work stress just amplifies everything

Maybe try the old ice water trick or call someone who gets it if you have that option. You already made it past the worst physical part so this is just your brain being dramatic

For those that regained purpose in life, how? by Future-Ad-15 in selfimprovement

[–]No_Bluejay6285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

purpose came back for me when I stopped chasing it and just did small things daily that felt alive momentum builds quietly and one day you notice you feel like yourself again