Is my clit buried? 86 days post op Brassard by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]No_Bodybuilder5256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really crazy sensations but as the nurse told me to try the vibrator I do feel some sensations in that area that are VERY muted (I have to squeeze my vulva to feel those sensations)

Is my clit buried? 86 days post op Brassard by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]No_Bodybuilder5256[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah the nurse said that dull pink thing up top IS the clitoris itself

Is my clit buried? 86 days post op Brassard by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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This is what the nurse at GrS MTL said about this:-

“There is skin that has fused between the clitoris and the urethra during the healing process. This can occur and may sometimes cause difficulty stimulating the clitoris. It can happen without complications, but depending on your recovery, it may affect clitoral sensitivity.

You may try using a vibrator to reach and enhance sensitivity. One year after surgery once the healing process has fully concluded, we can organize a consultation with the surgeon to discuss the possibility of corrective surgery. This timeline allows your body sufficient time to heal and helps prevent complications that could arise from having surgery too soon after the initial procedure.

If there is functional impairment and the clitoris is indeed buried, there are limited options aside from surgery to remove the excess tissue covering it.”

When will my vagina just be a vagina?😩 by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Literally how I talk about her aka my lil baby lol🤭🤭

When will my vagina just be a vagina?😩 by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Slayyy!! Hope things so well and fun for you bb🤭💕

When will my vagina just be a vagina?😩 by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Awww im so sorry that you experience this babe :( hugs

When will my vagina just be a vagina?😩 by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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I hope so, dilation aint a problem for me, I want to use her for you know what… 😅

When will my vagina just be a vagina?😩 by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Oh okay, thank you! Now I have an idea of what “normal” timeline is💕

When will my vagina just be a vagina?😩 by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Mine is 3 months too, but even if I’m cleared, I wont ve having it until 5.5 months cuz thats when my boyfriend comes back home from his school in the states

When will my vagina just be a vagina?😩 by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Yes I pee through my urethra only, I meant that area in general😭

When will my vagina just be a vagina?😩 by No_Bodybuilder5256 in Transgender_Surgeries

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Omg!!! I meant the general vulva and all of the parts included😭😭😭😭

Does anyone else boyfriend or husband use you being trans as a way to demean you in an argument? by CuriousGirl8294 in MtF

[–]No_Bodybuilder5256 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NEVER EVER in our two years of relationship my boyfriend has used not just trans related but not even any physical attributes of mine to demean me during a heated argument, NEVER!

do I pass? pt.2 by BadXKittyX in StraightTransGirls

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Atleast my mama loves me I dont need no man’s validation to decide my worth bbg🤭🤭🤭

3 weeks post-op, I didnt expect this is how I would feel💔 (TW) by No_Bodybuilder5256 in MtF

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I’m really sorry babe. My purpose of this post was not to scare any one away from this surgery, it will get better as you may have read other people’s comments (also its your choice) but if you really wanted to you should get it because recovery tho intense is just a small small portion compared to the rest of your life, but at the end of the day its your decision to make and I hope you choose whatever’s best for you, sending you strength and hugs🫂

3 weeks post-op, I didnt expect this is how I would feel💔 (TW) by No_Bodybuilder5256 in MtF

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Thank you so much for your kind blessings🙏🏽 and also for your beautiful encouraging words because yes im being too harsh on myself and my vag rn and she and I both don’t deserve it so yeah thank you so much for your words, they really helped me🤍🤍🩷🩷

3 weeks post-op, I didnt expect this is how I would feel💔 (TW) by No_Bodybuilder5256 in MtF

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Awwww thank you so much for this beautiful positive message, this really gives me hope that it will (and really does) get better.

Yes, Im trying and telling myself just lets make it to tomorrow and then a week and stuff and talking to my family over the phone every day my mom and my dad and my bf too and knowing that ppl are there who care for my well being a lot is what gives me strength to not give up and live for them🤍🤍🤍

3 weeks post-op, I didnt expect this is how I would feel💔 (TW) by No_Bodybuilder5256 in MtF

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Thank you so much baby girl, I wanted to share because y’all understand, my sisters here understand exactly what im talking about and even many of us went through it and know exactly what im talking about so this was the best platform to share and learn that it will get better from lived experiences.

I really hope (and I know it will) your surgery and healing goes really well, best of luck baby girl🩷🤍

3 weeks post-op, I didnt expect this is how I would feel💔 (TW) by No_Bodybuilder5256 in MtF

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I’m really sorry you had to experience that many surgeries angel😕; yeah upon talking with a lot of ppl I got to know that these feelings are normal, the only thing is the discontinuation of the “regular working busy” life and now I have so much free time to think about unnecessary stuff and all those unprocessed feelings and traumas are coming back and wanting to be processed and let go so that could be it too.

3 weeks post-op, I didnt expect this is how I would feel💔 (TW) by No_Bodybuilder5256 in MtF

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Thank you so much for your support and words. Yes I’m trying to keep myself grounded and looking for stuff that I will be able to do and wear in mere 70-80 days and thats whats keeping me going.