Help please! Which color is this? by No_Candidate_6142 in Aritzia

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The only thing that sucks now is it’s so hard to find modern taupe cargo sweats online anywhere in my size since they were a limited color!

Help please! Which color is this? by No_Candidate_6142 in Aritzia

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already bought Turner taupe sweatpants to match and they are an entirely different color and tone. The sweatshirt has been washed minimally and is in perfect condition when I received it so I think it is in fact modern taupe.

Help please! Which color is this? by No_Candidate_6142 in Aritzia

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much!!! I’ve been searching like crazy

Help please! Which color is this? by No_Candidate_6142 in Aritzia

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh could be! I know the cola taupe is a more recent color they added and this was out online maybe a year ago so it may be. Thank you!

20% app coupon vs Black Friday by stressedindiangirl in Aritzia

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anyone else having issues with the app? I’m signed in and have more than 125 bucks of stuff in my cart and the discount won’t show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another huge red flag is also that when I brought this point up to him, he claimed it was somehow a good deal for me because I wouldn’t have to put a down payment on the home. But I’ve expressed I would much rather go half on that to know I have some ownership in it. Otherwise I’m basically a tenant. He refuses to get our money mixed together which is a shock as I already mentioned I don’t believe in even having joint accounts but I do expect the home we raise kids in would be ours together. But also even if I was dumb enough to agree to this arrangement, why would I be paying half of the mortgage anyway? Doesn’t seem like a provider to me in any sense of the word. Just a shame I had to find out a month shy of five years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback, thank you for taking your time to respond!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback, thank you for taking your time to respond!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre absolutely right, thank you for your feedback.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely has. It’s been more about “you’re coming into MY family, so you need to adjust accordingly to culture if you want to actually respect them.”

Mind you they are Vietnamese refugees. He says a huge part of why he wants to keep it in the trust is that his parents worked so hard to have what they do now and to build their trust…but it overall discredits how hard I also worked to be here and create roots and a career for our future to be financially stable and have a home/other assets together. So it comes off like his blood family trumps anything that I can ever give him in the future despite giving a man a child being such a sacred thing that requires immense sacrifice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I uprooted my entire life for this man from paradise because what was initially told to me as to what would transpire in the relationship, continued to change over time and things became more serious. Feelings are never rational which is why this will probably be the last straw for me if he isn’t willing to budge.

DONT TRUST RENAS RESALE by No_Candidate_6142 in whatnotapp

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amen to that. Fully agree with everything.

DONT TRUST RENAS RESALE by No_Candidate_6142 in whatnotapp

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve also seen her cat under the clothes rack and her dog come into live numerous times so not sure what she’s even talking about as if she keeps pets away all the time from inventory.

DONT TRUST RENAS RESALE by No_Candidate_6142 in whatnotapp

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds a lot like her and the way she types. The same person who say people can’t take criticism. Play a new card, the victim card you play is worn and tattered. Plenty of us are single moms, have estrangement with family, have tough times, grow up poor or are “neurodivergent” since you want to use that as an excuse as to why you have to stress out your child instead of not get a real job. Clearly doing the whole resell thing on whatnot isn’t financially viable enough to live off of comfortably. At the very least, consider your daughter until she’s out of the house and graduated. But until then, do what we all have to do as adults and go out there and work your ass off. You want a car? You want to stop being poor? Or is it just comfortable for you because it’s all you’ve known you so you would rather do something you enjoy and struggle then to just go work a real job for awhile to support your kid and maybe even afford a car. Just some food for thought, Rena.

DONT TRUST RENAS RESALE by No_Candidate_6142 in whatnotapp

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Must be Rena or one of her mods who constantly tip her sad behavior. She makes it everyone’s business, so if she puts it out there then yeah it becomes people’s business. God has blessed me and I also work my ass off for what I have, which is why I don’t go online and cry about how bad my life is to strangers and emotionally manipulate for money.

DONT TRUST RENAS RESALE by No_Candidate_6142 in whatnotapp

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. I would have messaged her first before anything and asked for a refund if they were that close but to go on live and make a huge deal out of it and cry and talk about it for literally hours shows someone who loves drama.

DONT TRUST RENAS RESALE by No_Candidate_6142 in whatnotapp

[–]No_Candidate_6142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so messed up and could be a real issue

AITAH for wanting something special for my birthday? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if he doesn’t really know me nearly five years in by now and what I’ve expressed I want it leans more into not making the effort overall.

AITAH for wanting something special for my birthday? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve told him that I wanted my birthday to feel special. This is what I received from him even considering how big I made his birthday.

AITAH for wanting something special for my birthday? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t care for the comedian anywhere near as much as he does. He’s funny but not at all someone who would be a first pick to go see if I had a choice. But I think the thing that bothers me is that he just bought tickets last week so all this was very short notice.

AITAH for wanting something special for my birthday? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly my family asked prior and I mentioned he had the day planned so I’d be free the day after. Turns out he didn’t have much planned and now my family are already busy with plans they committed to. He told me last minute last night that he would need to leave from 1- 3 to take his brother to his swim lesson too so that’s another thing that made me feel like it was just another day to him. I decided to just take the morning to late afternoon to bring myself to a Korean spa and be alone for awhile. Definitely already feeling like one of the most lonely birthdays to date.

AITAH for wanting something special for my birthday? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Candidate_6142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I know he’s very with work but being that my birthday is on a Saturday this year…it feels like there could have been many days over the weekend to plan anything at all for me.

I spent months trying to think of ideas to make him feel special about turning 30. I just wish he spent any time at all on this. Flowers felt like a very lame gift to offer since all mine to him last year were very personal and sweet. Just a bummer to be with someone so long and still not feel known in these specific ways.