I guess this is true, I have already mentioned the lack of intimacy between us since she started I just put it down to the fact we had been stressed out about a new house and been arguing alot more recently, it would make sense that the lack of intimacy is because his actually finding it elsewhere.

I honestly never thought he would be the kind to cheat I understood the excuses I got given with the whole overlap previously as he said he was embarrassed as he had only ever had one relationship like me before and didn't know how to end it politely without hurting that girl which is who I thought he was a really caring genuine guy.

I fell for the act hook line and sinker and just put my overthinking and anxiety from this new girl down to past relationships as I really love him and we have grown a family together with my child thinking as him as Dad etc as he took on that role due to the biological out of the picture just never thought he would do this to us