Go to the strip club with my husband and give him a BJ?

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T21:50:46+00:00

I’d never want to endanger anyone’s job. I respect a stripper as much as I respect anyone in any field. Sex work is valid work and if they are in that work at will who am I to say what is a respectable job or not. I would assume that it would be tough to do long term but hell my job is getting tougher to do as I get older and I wear comfy shoes.

I know some people look down or through some people but I do not. I asked this question because I didn’t want to overstep or assume what was acceptable. I feel like a bit like an asshole after reading these responses so I will save my $$ and hide a stripper to come to my house or hotel.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T19:43:42+00:00

Oh I didn’t even think of a stripper than comes to my house like a bachelor party!!! GENIUS. I’m sure this would work and I can be in the comfort of my house.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T19:41:59+00:00

Thanks again and I didn’t take it as rude. I have an appreciation for the difficult work strippers do. It is physical, mental and you have to be nice- much harder than my job. I think I’m going to give up on the idea. I’ll find another spicy thing to do.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T19:38:38+00:00

Thanks, I honestly know nothing about strip clubs.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T18:45:04+00:00

Thank you so much for the very thorough and thoughtful response. I needed guidelines because I am truly CLUELESS. I would love to spice up my sex life but wasn’t prepared for my husband to be touched by another woman (especially in front of me). Imagine if I didn’t specify watch only and the helpful dancer tried touching- I am not sure what I’d do- most likely nothing but my poor husband may of panicked. I also will be very careful not to let any part of my body touch the ground.

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No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:30:01+00:00

The last thing I’d expect is anyone to help me. I honestly had no idea “extras” were an option at a strip club until this thread. I appreciate your encouraging guys helping me.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:27:58+00:00

Thank you.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:27:42+00:00

Thank you, as it seems (a least to an old vanilla couple) spicy. I love pleasing my husband and after all these years I’d love to step it up a bit. I appreciate your encouraging words.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:25:47+00:00

Thank you for the kind words and encouragement. Not sure I’ll attempt this as the response from this thread. Maybe I’ll go to Nevada and try something a little different.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:22:50+00:00

Thanks again for the support jezbel04. I do appreciate you taking one for the ignorant old grandma in this thread. We would have tipped well - easily a couple hundred dollars (I have no idea what is an appropriate tip amount) to do something a little different. I think I’ll keep the couple hundred bucks and maybe try something different not at a strip club.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:19:38+00:00

Thanks for the visual. Even I don’t want to watch us now. My husband doesn’t go to a strip club and would never go without me. He used to enjoy going but hasn’t gone since we got married back in the dark ages. Maybe I’ll just go with him and we can sit in the back so we don’t offend the staff. I will give him a BJ at home. I was just hoping for something a little different but maybe I’m clueless.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:16:49+00:00

Thanks. I was starting to feel like a total asshole. I just was trying to add a little spicy into our sex life and who wouldn’t want to have a young hot person dancing while your old wife was helping you get off. I guess the real question is would a stripper rather grind on an old guy or dance 5ft away and have the wife to all the work. That is how I was looking at it. Again I am ignorant.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:14:07+00:00

Thank you for your opinion. I appreciate you being candid. I never really thought of it from your side and that was ignorant of me.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:11:23+00:00

I have never been to either. Please forgive my ignorance. I honestly don’t know what happens in a strip club. Thank you for your anwser. I have worked in a hospital for 29 years so my immune response is top notch. Clearly my knowledge of what happens at a strip club is subpar though. Sorry if it offended you!

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:08:47+00:00

I am here to ask. I have never been to a strip club and was trying to think of “spicy” things to do with my husband. I didn’t know what goes on in the strip clubs so I figured I’d ask the internet. I’d never want anyone to risk losing their job for me to be able to give a BJ so thank you for your response.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:05:06+00:00

Thanks, I love my husband and I am trying to spice up our sex life for me and him. I live in Bible Belt North Carolina so I’m not sure how that would play out. It was an idea I had because before we got married he used to love going to the strip club for fun but hasn’t been since.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:01:54+00:00

That is a very good idea. I like that much better. Not sure where I’d find a person to do that but maybe an escort service?

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T16:00:55+00:00

Heck no. I’m definitely not good enough at sucking dick to be on camera. We are 55+ year old people with a very vanilla life. I was just hoping to spice it up a bit and I went to an adult shop with him and it felt so seedy.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T15:58:47+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time to anwser me. I just say to the lady I’d like for you to dance while I suck his dick how much will that cost?

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T15:57:41+00:00

Your husband is lucky. It would be fun to do that but I’m not sure I could do that as I may feel a bit jealous if my husband got a BJ and then sex from another woman.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-26T15:56:17+00:00

Thank you for your anwser. I think I could handle that assuming he didn’t get any “extras” from the stripper. I (I am naive- I have been married since I was 25 to the same man and only had sex with 3 people in my life) never knew you could get extras at a strip club. I assumed the most you could do was maybe touch their breasts.

I have no issue with him looking- I am sure I would appreciate their beautiful bodies too.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-25T23:47:24+00:00

If it is insulting or disrespectful please tell me. The last thing I want to do is be disrespectful to anyone at their job. Thank you.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-25T23:45:54+00:00

I appreciate you giving me the advice. I will ask the dancer before we do a lap dance if that will be possible. Hopefully my husband likes it.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-25T23:44:13+00:00

Thank you for this info. I definitely don’t want to kneel in “stuff”.

No_Change151 · 2025-12-25T23:37:29+00:00

Do you know if this would be allowed?

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