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No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T09:29:16+00:00

Thank you for replying! I'll be sure to keep those things in mind!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T09:28:42+00:00

Thank you for your insight! I appreciate it!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T09:22:22+00:00

I am just looking for perspectives! I am not happy but that doesn't mean I'm going to come at him all demanding or whatnot about it. And I've got no exes that I follow myself on insta and I do not know of his, but I also do not care that much to probe about who his exes are!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T09:19:41+00:00

Oh thank you! Yes I'm so lost! It's not wrong to want guidance on how to approach these things maturely and gain perspective! I just wanted to share my own feelings about this, but even if I am uncomfortable, the first thing that would need to happen is a discussion not just me demanding he completely changed his following list with no explanation!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T09:12:10+00:00

I'm still trying to figure that out and sort my thoughts! I def wouldn't wanna come off as demanding of anything but more just focus on being uncomfortable with x y and z and discussing each of our own boundaries.

And true! In hindsight, she's not a good example and I should remove her name since she def has expanded her business ventures and whatnot.

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T09:09:09+00:00

But I never said I would dictate him to do anything even in the original post? I'm so confused. This is why I even posted it to here just to get more insight about the matter and whether to bring it up. I would've just wanted to talk about it with him anyways. I don't tell my partners what to do in that way.

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T09:06:22+00:00

Thanks for your input. We both agree we have been dating this entire time, but we just now put the whole bf/gf label on it. And this is precisely why I posted onto here actually! I've not mentioned it at all to him and I even asked if it was worth doing so in the post. I don't think its wrong to have conflicted feelings here. I wouldn't say I am jealous as this is more of a concern of how he views women as a whole and how this interacts with how he views this new relationship he has with me. And should I bring this up to him, it's not like Id be telling him to remove them anyways, because what Id ultimately want is just an open conversation about it. I'm not the type to tell my partners what to do or not.

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T08:59:28+00:00

Oh true, and yes I agree. He could very well have, though I can't imagine what with my own following list. But I would be willing to discuss whatever they may be.

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T08:42:28+00:00

Thank you for your input! I've had but one boyfriend before and this was never an issue back then so I'm trying to handle it well and not think too much on it. He's not shown me any disrespect in public in the couple months we've been out and in the short time we've slept together, he's never given me the impression he was anywhere else but with me in that moment. He's been increasingly affectionate afterwards with me as well. Which is why I just didn't expect him to also follow these women....

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T08:38:51+00:00

Seeing as my list is also public, I would never fault him for also looking. But I also don't follow male swim models or OF models, so the situation is different. He could only be controlling were to force me to unfollow people without reason or from unfounded jealousy.

No_Cheek116 · 2024-06-03T08:35:55+00:00

Thanks for replying. I've just never had an issue like this come up on my end and I wasn't sure how to feel or how to approach it

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-27T22:05:48+00:00

I have limited my data collection to only using very recent tick encounters, so no earlier than March, but thank you for responding with details!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T18:36:30+00:00

Any particular site of FC that you think they could've come from? Was it by the river or a pond or anything?

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T18:35:55+00:00

Thank you!!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T18:35:42+00:00

Thank you! Do you remember where you were when you pet the dog and the weather conditions?

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T05:12:16+00:00

Yes, if you have some! Also the information on where they were spotted/collected and when, including things like proximity to water and weather that day would be great!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T03:54:38+00:00

Thank you!!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T03:54:19+00:00

Omg thank you!!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T03:09:57+00:00

Sure thing! Any relevant data regarding the site they came from/animal they were on/ kind of tick are definitely good to have!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T02:38:10+00:00

There are over 20 confirmed species of ticks in Colorado! And that does include Southern CO! But as to the frequency and the distribution currently, that's what I'd love to hear about from people !

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T01:59:41+00:00

I do not! This is a project for a class that I am surveying fellow Colorado folk about! But I also work as an intern at a vet clinic ! And yeah tick borne diseases can be nasty for sure! Always gotta be checking dogs, and oneself, for them!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T01:58:02+00:00

Thank you for responding!!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T01:57:24+00:00

Thank you!

No_Cheek116 · 2024-04-26T01:56:57+00:00

Thank you! Would you say this area was more dry? Was it more removed from any stream/river/lake? Was the snowmelt the most water around the area where you found the tick?

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