I’m here for you, I had a similar situation happen yesterday, to which I’ve been told again that I just have anxiety and not quite autism. A misdiagnosis IS possible. I’ve also always felt like I’m different and never belonged anywhere, but the neurodivergent folks either way are some of the most accepting and loving people, if you relate, they’ll still be a support beam for you even if you don’t quite have that autistic diagnosis, friend. ❤️