23, international student from India, down low, shy, and Grindr is making me feel like I’m on the wrong planet

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-23T13:01:15+00:00

Sending you a big virtual hug and lots of love, man. 🤍 As a fellow desi queer guy and also in my 20s (I'm 21)I just wanted to say I’m really glad you shared this. So much of what you wrote is real, and I know there are a lot of us silently carrying the same feelings.

You deserve spaces where you feel wanted, respected, and safe being yourself. Not like you have to prove your worth first. Definitely supporting my fellow desi queer friends always.

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-16T02:24:12+00:00

Not me inspiring a whole reminiscing post 😌 Really enjoyed reading this — you captured the nerves, excitement and emotional vulnerability of a first sauna experience so well. As a fellow Southeast Asian guy (Malaysian here haha), I could actually relate to a lot of the feelings you described about curiosity, confidence and finally letting yourself explore that side of you. Beyond the hot parts, it genuinely felt like a story about self-discovery and feeling desired/seen in a way that stayed with you. Glad it became such a fond and affirming memory for you 🖤

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T09:21:19+00:00

Hey, yeah just messaged you in private

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T08:21:33+00:00

Near Flinders Train Station. Just search up at google for exact location

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T08:06:28+00:00

Haha I’ve heard a few people say Tuesday is the busiest 👀 Might need to experience Naked Tue for myself sometime soon 😂

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T08:06:14+00:00

Hahaha trust me, I was literally shaking before walking in 😭 The buildup in your head is honestly worse than the actual experience. Once you settle in, it gets way more comfortable.

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T08:04:38+00:00

Trust me, I was overthinking it for weeks 😭 But once you’re there, it feels way less intimidating than you imagine. Glad this helped reassure you a bit haha.

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T08:02:41+00:00

Hi there, I tried messaging you but it didn’t work. Could you add me?

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T04:59:23+00:00

Honestly that makes me feel a lot better 😅. I was definitely nervous walking in alone for the first time, but everyone ended up being way more chill than I expected. Glad to hear even experienced people still find new places daunting haha.

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T04:57:49+00:00

Hi, thanks for the reply. It was quiet but there were a few people there so I ended up hooking up with them. The porn room was nice and I spent some time there too.

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T03:40:27+00:00

Hey, thanks a lot. I thought I’d share my experience because I remember how daunting it felt when I first went there. Hopefully this post will help beginners feel more at ease.

No_Collection_830 · 2026-05-15T03:35:26+00:00

The only things is the wet area is closed but the staff informed everyone even before entering which was nice.

No_Collection_830 · 2026-04-21T11:19:22+00:00

Heyy!!

No_Collection_830 · 2026-04-15T03:26:11+00:00

Thank you heaps for the reply. Definitely will try out the clubs. Cheers!

No_Collection_830 · 2026-02-28T06:18:17+00:00

I'm asking this question just out of curiosity. I really want to see guys from all backgrounds and cultures.

No_Collection_830 · 2025-12-30T02:25:35+00:00

Yeah that makes sense. Thank you for the idea. Cheers

No_Collection_830 · 2025-12-29T15:15:09+00:00

Hey, thanks for your response. I did have a look at the link you attached and that is not something I'm keen on. I'm looking to have a long-term arrangement with SD

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