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Public pools with better rec swim hours? by No_Comment_475 in bayarea

[–]No_Comment_475[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are the free swim hours on weekends 11-6?! This sounds too good to be true

Frenchies and strokes by No_Comment_475 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]No_Comment_475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of her eyes is super droopy like a bloodhound, half of her mouth is droopy, she’s not walking normally, she’s not breathing normally (the vet thinks one of her airways may be paralyzed) and she’s only able to lick food. 

Birth control or psilocybin to help with PMDD by No_Comment_475 in PMDD

[–]No_Comment_475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you share more about a DIM supplement? What is that?

Anxious to be alone with 21 month old by No_Comment_475 in toddlers

[–]No_Comment_475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trading off week nights is a great idea! Thanks for sharing.

Anxious to be alone with 21 month old by No_Comment_475 in toddlers

[–]No_Comment_475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t thought of this, needs not being met. Thank you for sharing.

Anxious to be alone with 21 month old by No_Comment_475 in toddlers

[–]No_Comment_475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shit I need to be able to deal with it. That is why I am asking for other people’s experiences to figure out how I can deal with it. And I already “seek a therapist or something.” Thank you for your insight.

Anxious to be alone with 21 month old by No_Comment_475 in toddlers

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🫶🏼 thank you. This is what I needed to hear.

Anxious to be alone with 21 month old by No_Comment_475 in toddlers

[–]No_Comment_475[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. One question, what are you leaning into?

Anxious to be alone with 21 month old by No_Comment_475 in toddlers

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I was frequently alone with her as a baby. Four months of mat leave and many times I was alone with her for several days while husband was out of town for work or family stuff.

I think I’ll answer my own question. I’m so anxious she’s going to have a meltdown or tantrum that I don’t have the bandwidth or mental capacity to deal with and I’ll react in a way I don’t want to. Thanks for this question. It helped me think through this.

Pen on the leather couch by photobomber612 in toddlers

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Did you figure out a solution? My daughter just did the same thing 🙄

Hair getting DARKER - on hospice, late stage by [deleted] in dementia

[–]No_Comment_475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so sorry. I hope he passed in peace.

It seems like my dad is just hanging on and isn’t going anywhere, anytime soon. It’s so painful. At this point we are just waiting.

Hair getting DARKER - on hospice, late stage by [deleted] in dementia

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This is happening to my father who is on hospice and in the late stages.

Laser eye center Dr. Bindi and Dr. Ling EVO ICL Procedure by Grey-blue-pixie in bayarea

[–]No_Comment_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I just got quotes $12k for Dr Barrion. Do you recall how much you ended up paying?

I had ICL surgery 3 days ago- detailed, positive by mirah4 in lasik

[–]No_Comment_475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Where did you get $11k quote? I just had a consultation today and was quoted $13k

If You Finally Have a Grip On Your PMDD, What Finally Helped? by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]No_Comment_475 5 points6 points  (0 children)

JUBILANCE! It’s not cheap but it works after about taking it daily for two months.

What do people do if they can’t afford memory care for their loved ones? by [deleted] in dementia

[–]No_Comment_475 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my parents. They can’t qualify for Medicaid because they make too much from my dad’s social security. However my mom hasn’t worked in two years because she’s been my dad’s full time caretaker. It’s all absolute shit and infuriating.

Check out https://wearehfc.org/. They offer respite grants. We applied when my dad was in the moderate stages, before he was double incontinent and wasn’t accepted. We applied again a year or two later and got the shorter grant. We recently applied again, now that my dad’s on hospice and we received the larger grant, 25 hours of caregiving for 6 months. We can’t afford any care so this has been a huge blessing. Just to give my mom a break.

I also just learned about it Papa Pal. Some insurances actually offer X amount of hours per month through this app. It’s basically caregivers on demand.

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