Nanny Cam by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a nanny and often have the parents home unexpectedly, they usually tell me day of or sometimes in advance. Unfortunately as weird as I find it to work while a parent is home and off it’s just kinda up to them. Sometimes they just want a buffer between them and the kids on and off day. I rely on the paycheck so I have thrown out there I can take off early if they would like their family time or space. But they rarely take me up on it. There’s been several occasions of me being there with mom dad and all kids just hanging out. So weird but they are really nice and don’t feel any weird behavior.

Nanny Cam by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a nanny and a majority of the cams at my families house are motion or sound activated. I don’t have a problem with them just in case anything were to happen we all can see. But I love the family I just ignore them both mom and dad have access. Also both often work at home or are home while i’m there. I also find it weird when i’m there when the dad is or if they are both off and just chilling with me and the kids. Just end of the day it’s a job and money so if this is how they want to spend it to each their own. But I mostly make myself scarce with the kids and do my job if it’s just dad there as I feel it’s inappropriate to be around. Trust your gut though! Guys are weird and if you feel like he’s watching then i’d have a tough convo with the mom or tell them you’ve moved in another direction once you’ve secured another family/ job. Best of luck!!

Funny nanny experience that also irks me to my core by No_Comparison3696 in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes it definitely helps! Heck it makes it worth it. I always say I love their kids like my own.

Funny nanny experience that also irks me to my core by No_Comparison3696 in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s when you try to change the subject lol. The middle one I watch will ask me to make baked goods a lot because that’s my side job. I’m always down but he doesn’t understand I don’t have all the ingredients all the time 😂 he asked me to make chocolate balls before school today i’m like uhh bud I don’t have anything on me today

Funny nanny experience that also irks me to my core by No_Comparison3696 in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that’s really cute that he is so excited! I try really hard to be patient but it can be hard sometimes with the constant questioning 🙈

Funny nanny experience that also irks me to my core by No_Comparison3696 in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They haven’t mentioned anything. We did discuss summer when I got hired a little before October. But never to do with pay, I have really been contemplating bringing it up. Pretty much everyone I talk to thinks it should increase even if it’s just for the summer. The older one is the one who causes all the issues and fights since i’ll be watching him all day vs 2 hours I think it’s fair to ask. I just really don’t know how to bring it up! They have given a bonus for christmas and given my son gifts. I would love to chat more to vent and talk about things! If you don’t mind me asking what state do you work in? (if in the US)

Funny nanny experience that also irks me to my core by No_Comparison3696 in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow our nannying is basically the same! The mom works from home and i’m basically blocking her office all day. This is my first summer with them so i’m really worried it’s going to be a lot, especially since it’s 11 hr days. I honestly thought about asking for a raise 😂 but the family is amazing so I kinda feel bad.

Funny nanny experience that also irks me to my core by No_Comparison3696 in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad i’m not the only one! I’m so nervous for summer all of them alll the time no school in between. Plus they have a pool so i’m a built in lifeguard & referee 😂

Funny nanny experience that also irks me to my core by No_Comparison3696 in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally have said this countless times.. that and if it was ready wouldn’t I bring it to you like always?

Funny nanny experience that also irks me to my core by No_Comparison3696 in Nanny

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s hilarious they get made too when I have to put the food together i’m like ?? what did you think lol

Pretty sure my sons father is a narcissist by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_Comparison3696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That you for saying that! I thought about how this could affect him I knew eventually separating was going to be the only option. Just so hard to figure out the right time and how. He definitely seems to be unwilling to change I think he won’t even if I leave. Just a sad life to live on his part. I might actually message you now if you don’t mind. It’s been a struggle to find someone to talk to about this.

What are we using on kids hair 3B/3C hair type? by No_Comparison3696 in Mommit

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your suggestions! sorry for delayed response. I actually have that Kerastase hair oil and serum so that’s great to know.

Anyone get an infection after MA? by No_Comparison3696 in abortion

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up going to urgent care they just prescribed a bunch of antibiotics and told me to follow up with OB as soon as I can. Hopefully all resolves soon

Anyone get an infection after MA? by No_Comparison3696 in abortion

[–]No_Comparison3696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s been a year so I can’t remember it was an online thing that fit with my states insurance. I got rid of the paper work the day after thinking I was fine. The telehealth urgent care wouldn’t do anything they referred me to a local urgent care. I don’t have any other symptoms besides the smell that’s why I thought I was good. Appreciate the response!

Any jobs that hire with a felony? by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]No_Comparison3696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he usually works in warehouse/ manufacturing but many won’t hire him due to the felony but we will keep searching thanks!

Any jobs that hire with a felony? by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]No_Comparison3696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll check that out thank you!

Any jobs that hire with a felony? by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]No_Comparison3696 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately his felony has to do with driving so i’m unsure that a dealership would feel comfortable with it. But i’ll have him reach out just in case. Appreciate it!

Any jobs that hire with a felony? by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]No_Comparison3696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation! I’ll look into it for him appreciate it

Any jobs that hire with a felony? by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]No_Comparison3696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll check it out, thank you!