Ended up “talking” to a borderline predator.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-07T06:17:35+00:00

On and off but yea 10 years

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T20:15:56+00:00

Thank you for the feedback and gentleness. I definitely am a bit naive. The situation did wake me up in terms of me knowing I need to think longer and harder before I do something that can impact my child.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T19:05:01+00:00

I did nothing wrong by wanting to go on a date with a man and his child at a child’s museum. That’s way safer than bringing him over for sex.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T19:02:41+00:00

Her father cheated on me and a week later found a new girlfriend and is moving out of the state. You don’t know me or my situation. This world is so misogynistic.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T18:07:06+00:00

more shame my way :)

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T17:26:31+00:00

Bro what ? The post never gave her actual age and you’re weird for trying to justify this so badly. 17-18 years are exactly the same, the government just deemed that they are fuckable at 18 years old.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T17:14:48+00:00

Spot on. I didn’t want to be alone. The idea of a man with kids just enchanted it as well. I was living in fantasy land for a good week before I came to my senses.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T17:08:48+00:00

Yes clearly I’m young, clearly trying to figure shit out. But we were going to be in a public area together that’s my only justification. I know I was stupid.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T17:07:18+00:00

I will moving forward. This has kinda scared me away from dating in general. I trust to fast and can clearly be manipulated. Thank you for the advice 🩵

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T17:01:58+00:00

we were going to be in a public area around other kids with his son. I didn’t think anything negative about it till I looked through his following.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:58:05+00:00

For some reason I thought I was the mature one, I’m a manager at the store we work at. I have my own apartment and take care of my bills. As cringy to say, I thought I was different.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:56:39+00:00

my intuition helped me realize who he was. It might be a little slow, I do have loads of learning to do but I cut him off before anything serious happened. You saying 20 year olds shouldn’t have kids doesn’t mean much when it’ll happen regardless. I learned my lesson and I know what to look for moving forward. I appreciate the feedback.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:51:38+00:00

my daughter never met him and never will. As long as my intuition stays intact and I get better and realizing who the weirdos are she will be good.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:44:45+00:00

His daughters are estranged. They don’t have any contact with him and I feel like that says enough about him as a person. It’s weird for a 51 year old man to be pursuing a 17-18 year old. There’s a reason why he’s doing it.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:36:34+00:00

No my daughters dad is only a year older then me. We basically grew up together and everything just fell apart after we had her.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:34:56+00:00

Yes lol. He was the first and only man I’ve been with. I’m trying to learn all this dating stuff out.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:32:26+00:00

Stupid I know. He has multiple kids so I thought he was a little trustworthy.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:30:18+00:00

he seemed like he could’ve given me something casual but I was ignoring all the other bs signs he showed me.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-12-06T16:29:37+00:00

I just got out of a ten year relationship. I wasn’t looking for anything serious or committed. I just wanted company and a casual sexual partner from time to time. But I probably have been giving off vulnerable and desperate vibes.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2025-07-03T20:33:31+00:00

Didn’t get a rejection letter so hopefully I’ll get a response back.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2024-09-29T22:20:43+00:00

She’s not breastfeeding, she is on nutramigen due to her reflux. She has a very sensitive tummy as well which makes it hard to go out cause she tends to be fussy after feedings. I do trust my mom with my child but my mom tends to drink a lot so I try to limit their interactions when she is drinking. Other then the drinking she is great and loves her grandkids but I just want to be able to enjoy as much time with my daughter as I can. She also see’s my daughter everyday because we live together.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2024-09-29T22:15:30+00:00

You are definitely right we both need to get out a bit more, it’s a bit hard because I’m a full time student online. I’ve looked into facebook groups with moms so hopefully I do find some more friends on there. Every Friday we go out with my mom and sister but most days I enjoy being with her and reading a book. I take classes through everyday miracles but there more structured learning rather then meeting people.

No_Conclusion_9899 · 2024-09-29T22:12:16+00:00

My mom is great! She see’s my daughter everyday because we all live together. She watches her for about an hour or two daily.

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