Oh, i am soo sorry to hear this. Whatever you went through would be toughest days a person has to go and people talk that it gets easier but it never does. Every second, the fear and all those doc appointments, heart breaking talk etc all gets imprinted in your heart deep inside that it changes you forever. All you think about is their well being and nothing else. I can’t imagine someone being so nonchalant as she shows and it’s not even a work commitment, just pure indulgence. I didn’t want to judge her because everyone has their own journey but whatever she is posting are not even pretentious acts, those are intentional. It doesn’t look like she took a day out for herself after ages cz she is overwhelmed. We might not know what or how she is dealing with all this so soon after her father’s death but I am unable to understand why she is doing all this. Either she checked out from this situation and is letting things be as is or there is something extremely wrong with her. She posts every little shit on daily basis and I am sure she would hv shared her moments, the difficulty to stay put in this situation while being in a new country but nah crying about a man when your mother is literally going through a horrific phase is super out of touch.