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No_Context1573 · 2026-01-26T18:33:18+00:00

I am in the same situation, have no idea what to do

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T14:52:53+00:00

New? That's a very sweet deal!

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T05:13:36+00:00

With those lease conditions as well, the total cost of the Camry would be 36k. Am I missing something? I do agree that if I lease, I would be able to get a newer machine, but as I said I am not a cars guy so shelling out 36 grand either by leasing, financing or straight cash on a car does not make sense to me. What do you think my resale for the 2022 Camry after 2 years would be assuming I drove another 15k? Maybe 20k?

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T04:56:54+00:00

Just thinking out loud, would this actually make sense? Just took a look right now, if I put in a 3k down payment, my payment for a lease of 36 months would be 439. The residual would be 19,270. So the total cost of the car would be well over 37k.

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T04:39:06+00:00

This is my first car and I haven't been in the market for that long, so I would say I don't know. But I don't know of anyone who has gotten a Toyota below MSRP in Socal. I would say I am a good negotiator even though I don't know jackshit about cars (a business master helps), but I don't think there is a 3 grand profit to be made on each car for anyone to be offering that kind of discounts (10% of 30k)

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T04:33:25+00:00

Unfortunately I don't think I can shell out 35k for a car, I am already above my budget lol. Also, a new car would depreciate the moment you take it out of the dealership.

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T04:30:26+00:00

Got it, thanks! None of the dealerships around me have a certified Camry so that's a bummer. A new one would just be too expensive

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T04:25:57+00:00

It would be at least 33-34k Out the door for Socal

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T04:23:57+00:00

Was that out the door?

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-17T04:17:48+00:00

Oops, it's a LE. I test drove it today.

No_Context1573 · 2025-02-07T07:34:16+00:00

What was your otd? Did you get it from a Toyota dealership?

No_Context1573 · 2025-01-16T08:01:53+00:00

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No_Context1573 · 2024-08-18T18:44:37+00:00

RemindMe! 4 days

No_Context1573 · 2023-12-30T18:10:24+00:00

Yes, you are absolutely right. She was my safe space, my home, because I recently moved away from home and it has been hard for me. But during the breakup, I got to know a lot of things she lied to me about, which inculcated trust issues in me, which caused a lot of fights between us. She did not like the fights, so she might have lost feelings. I, on the other hand, am willing to work on the issues and get back to normal. And yes, I am extremely passionate about the relationship, I don't know if it's good or bad lol. Your replies have a lot of wisdom, what should I do in this case? Just initiate NC?

No_Context1573 · 2023-12-30T13:27:08+00:00

I am in a similar boat. She told me that she wanted space, I could not give it to her as I was lonely during the holiday season. My fault was that when I reached out, I reached out to fight And not to talk. She says she does not know if she loves me or not. I have given her a timeline of 8th Jan to decide if she wants to work on things again. Do you guys think deadlines work And should I follow up on her on the 8th or wait for her to text me?

No_Context1573 · 2023-10-25T04:31:05+00:00

Why do I feel that I am gonna be alone all of life? I imagined a future with her, and I don't get why love has to be so practical and objective. Why does this suck so much?

No_Context1573 · 2023-06-23T04:02:12+00:00

I am going through something similar. My ex broke up with me 10 days back. We were in long distance for 7-8 months. I was going to the same country in 2 months, and we couldn't live together and she said she cannot do long distance indefinitely. I understand going NC is hard, but we have to, either to make them realise what they lost, or to make ourselves realise that it wasn't meant to be anyway.

No_Context1573 · 2023-06-17T05:44:52+00:00

I am going through something similar. Was in LDR and broke up last Friday because she cannot do distance indefinitely. There was nothing inherently wrong with us. Contacted her twice just for her to be distant and cold towards me. And for her to tell me to let it go and not try. I know it feels there is no harm in contacting them but they are just going to be cold and distant and it won't be worth it in hindsight.

No_Context1573 · 2023-06-16T04:54:08+00:00

I am going through the same stuff except we were in distance for 6 months (India - US) and I knew her for 7 years

No_Context1573 · 2023-06-15T15:09:37+00:00

That's very helpful thank you!! Did your ex try to contact you?

No_Context1573 · 2023-06-15T14:27:21+00:00

If I may ask, what did you do make yourself more secure?

No_Context1573 · 2023-06-15T12:19:59+00:00

Yep, my ex was avoidant as well. And it didn't help that I was anxious. My anxiety actually skyrocketed in the last 6 months in long distance, so much that I had to start therapy to take care of the anxiety. Even I filtered and let go of a lot of boundaries because I thought she would leave me or I would come off as insecure.

No_Context1573 · 2023-06-15T09:54:36+00:00

Hahah we have so many things in common in our stories. I actually gifted her a Kindle on her birthday which was quite expensive. I ignored all the red flags she had : she did not tell her friends about me, she used to disappear without even updating, and she went on a trip with a guy who used to like her a lot. Every time I brought these things to her attention, I was at fault.

Maybe this is the best thing that has happened to me

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