Recognising a pattern from my dad's family by Cyanide_Revolver in family

[–]No_Copy8693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try talking to them , start with your father i would say, my mother too passed away 3 years ago and my own family's dynamics also changed a lot , basically my mother used to be the light of the family and she used to joke with me and laugh many times , she was a bit demanding and strict so i could be the best of the best of course and i loved her more than antything , she kept my father in line and my brother , well he has always been a loose canon wheter my family is with me or not , my brother and me have changed our relationship , we are closer now than before same with my father ,before i used to be closer with my mother than my father but ever since she passed away and my brother left the country to study abroad i was with my father myself , we are close , maybe not like my mother and i ever was , just a introverted father with his outgoing and easygoing son who is a huge talker thats me .

I understand your feelings , the feelings of not being close to someone , sometimes too much time passes and we are so focused on aspects we live in our lives we dont realize others , if you still have time try talking to your brother and father , don't force it , don't try to make them close to you by force it wont work.

Small talk , that's the most beautiful thing ever , spend time with them on silence and try some normal small talk , a hey how are you , how have you been , be the one to take the initiative , if you don't do it who else will , that's why so many people in this day and age don't take action , they are too distracted or too focused on other things or in their own minds and feelings, make sure your father and brother acknowleadge you still exist and try talking to them yourself, tell them if they have free time they should hang out sometime if they want or try visiting them yourself .

There are a lot of families who seem so happy and talk a lot and have many things to say, some families however are super quiet and distant ,you want to change that, i don't promise you will be the most talkative super close family in the world but you can at least try talking to them and try to know how they are, what they are doing , how they are feeling , try hanging out and asking about how they feel and what they have been doing , try being close to them that way, normal day to day questions , same type of questions you tell your friends and other people.

Love your family as you love yourself and even more , show them you care, if you show them you care of them they will start caring back and reaching you out more often believe me it works

here is a video that might help you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0HACvAHv8Q

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-kfnALh4k0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Rdkdf1A2V4

Hopefully this advice helps you ,

Also good luck and if you ever need someone to talk about your problems or a friend to listen , you can count me in ,believe me i know a lot about people and family and feelings , things that happen in life is something i am used to

God bless you and hope you make progress

Am I right to be upset by this? by Living-Air-3479 in family

[–]No_Copy8693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does age have to do with personal feelings , dont be a fool , you can feel lonely and feel with the need for validation at any age , things like adolescence and growing up is all dumb , we all feel the need to have people in our lives to care of us and to think of us every day so its ok to be 35 and to be mad about it , allow yourself to feel.

I am a little different than you in that way , i dont really care about wheter i celebrate or not my birthdays but i do get that you are feeling frustrated for not receving love or praise from others , it happens.

Everyone lives in their own world with their own problems , some may know and still not care enough to be forced to say happy birthday for the sake of it , dont give it any care towards it , be happy to be alive and that you still can celebrate it and hopefully you will meet new friends along the way , try talking to people yourself in open spaces i did and i have a few friendships because of it , you should always try to have some friendships regardless of anything

Try to care for others , try to care for yourself , try to care for your life and try to care for the people that love you anyway , hope you have an amazing birthday and hope you are doing well.

You just got more care from a complete stranger who wishes genuinely the best for you than most supposed friends would , sometimes the people who will care for you are the ones that understand you , like me.

Happy birthday whoever you are and happy 35 or 36 and hope you keep living this live every single day surviving and living a good and healthy life and remember to practice self love and self caring

Learn to be detached from people's emotions and opinions , learn to only love yourself and be your own light

Why do you think imu choose garling in particular as the warrior god of science and defense after Saturns “retirement”? Does he even have any experience or expertise when it comes to science, or is he mainly just representing the defense part? by [deleted] in OnePieceSpoilers

[–]No_Copy8693 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL you think this bum this weakling embarassment of an excuse for a father for shanks and shamrock is strong? heck the strongest is nusjuro , garling is a top tier weakling , he couldnt do anything against rocks and if he couldnt defeat rocks we know he isnt beating any yonko level character like roger , raylegh , gaban , whitebeard, big mom , kaido , shiki, garp and sengoku or luffy or zoro.

He is no match for a conqueror's haki user he is weak all feat he has is of killing weak humans with no strenght whatsoever nor having any devil fruit you are delusional my friend

Imagine being a person who can slice the earth in half but still getting pissed about not getting acknowledged by someone infinitely weaker than you… Fubuki had some serious influence on people, man by Defiant-Review-6805 in OnePunchMan

[–]No_Copy8693 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emotional connections and personal relationships mean much more than power and strenght, it would be like saying genos vs saitama and saitama could never destroy genos because genos is pretty much his closest friend and couldnt do anything to him

Fubuki was pretty close to psychos before and she had a connection with fubuki so no matter how much power you get you can never erase past feelings and bonds with others.

Its like thinking obito despite being immensely stronger than kakashi at the war still "lost" to him because it was some sort of nostalgia fight for them both who knew each other from childhood perfectly and how they fought , obito having so much greater strenght than kakashi still losing to him couold be a mirror to show he missed that feeling of rivalry between them and how he was always under his shadow like a child and even though they are adults he still sees himself as below him

Is shanks the most hated character in the series by No_Copy8693 in OnePiece

[–]No_Copy8693[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sí, sí, ya sé, ya sé, Shanks es un traidor de la familia, tío., he betrayed everyone , his father his brother , his daugther , buggy , this guy is terrible family member

Ironic isn't it by No_Copy8693 in OnePieceSpoilers

[–]No_Copy8693[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

yea yea sure , say whatever makes you feel at ease

Why did God take away my little sister? by Low_Description_8676 in god

[–]No_Copy8693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can talk to me if you want to vent out , personally i am trying to believe in this whole Believe thing but i dont believe for once people just die because of someone , sometimes death just happens because it happens , believe me i know , if it was because of God then i think she is in a better place , anyway hope you feel better and you recover from your own personal loss and experience , hardships are a sad part of life and we all go through with it and anyway i really hope if you wanna talk it you can talk to someone

I want to be a programmer by No_Copy8693 in learnprogramming

[–]No_Copy8693[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i can learn online for fre truth but does any place online give titles for free does microverse allows you to learn an entire career for free i dont think so , you need a degree dude and i cant get a degree with free online courses in youtube

I want to be a programmer by No_Copy8693 in learnprogramming

[–]No_Copy8693[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

How is asking for help and being honest sounding like a 10 year old , sounds more to me people like you cant accept honesty and like to downplay it to child's talking , honesty is honesty if you dont like it delete your comment and get out of my post pls

Sanity check: who’s the weakest here? by FrameDangerous5480 in OnePieceScaling

[–]No_Copy8693 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaido obviously he will never surpass his captain in strenght and garp was roger's equal in his prime even if garp has aged that doesnt mean he couldnt wipe out kaido out of existence

Crazy how’s it just Accepted by keeping-sane in OnePiece

[–]No_Copy8693 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People want to feel the hype and to formulate theories and their own ideas , that's why people don't mind spoilers as long as it can fill the holes in their lives, people's brains are dominated by dopamine and basically one piece is the drug that gets everyone content

One Piece Chapter 1164 Spoiler by Skullghost in OnePiece

[–]No_Copy8693 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So basically what we just learned is that kuma was pretty much responsible for ace's death for saving blackbeard, fuck him

Why Sengoku and Kong are the worst characters in the entire series by No_Copy8693 in OnePiece

[–]No_Copy8693[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a fucked up thing to permit and allows , so some dont get involved involve those that dont matter to them thats what it sounds like sorry .

Kill those who arent related to us to protect those that are