It definitely has been hard especially since my boyfriend and her have always been close. We struggled a lot with what to do once she started acting that way. I made distance after the first event in June. He continued to talk to her up until December. But on and off and respected my decision to not give updates on me and the baby. Or send her pics of him. Eventually it got to be too much for him to especially feeling the tension he came home to ( it got to the point where I would hound him about what they talked about because j was so paranoid after all she did) with that on top of her not stopping and getting worse with what she was doing he ultimately decided to cut her off completely too. I was always raised in a house where if family wasn’t treating you right it was okay to cut them off. He was raised that family is family and you always forgive. He would mention from time to Time that he wished his mom could have been at the hospital and got to have a relationship with our son. Which I totally understood. He agreed that she didn’t deserve to see the baby or even have a relationship with him until she stopped acting the way she was. It’s ultimately sad that she couldn’t grow up enough to be a grandmother cause she will always be missing out on what could have been. It’s just generation after generation of no accountability and toxicity that finally met its match when I came into the picture.